5 Ways To Help You Find Your Personal Style So You Can Look AND Feel Your Best | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Lifestyle

5 Ways To Help You Find Your Personal Style So You Can Look AND Feel Your Best

Getting dressed is so much more fun when you start expressing yourself.

32
5 Ways To Help You Find Your Personal Style So You Can Look AND Feel Your Best
Photo by Maddy Evans

Over the years, I'd like to think I've developed a pretty good sense of style. I plan my outfits out every day, look forward to dressing up, and often get compliments on my clothing. But just a few years ago, I still wore hoodies and leggings most days. What changed?

Well, I figured a few things out and had to change my mindset a bit. For me, I feel more confident and personally empowered when I dress how I want. If you're not interested in fashion or clothing, that's OK too! Do whatever makes you most happy and confident. But if you'd like to start dressing how you want, here are a few tips.

1. Use social media to find what you like.

While social media has its many benefits and downsides, one thing it's really great for is exploring different forms of style. Finding people on Instagram and TikTok with amazing fashion has really inspired me, and it can show you so many styles and subcultures you may not see much in real life.

Following people on these platforms can help you see so much to take inspiration from, and some accounts are even dedicated to giving styling tips. The best platform, however, is definitely Pinterest. You can save and organize outfits and clothing pieces you love so you can come back to them later for inspiration. The Pinterest explore page algorithm is also pretty good at catering content to your taste, so it's really easy and fun to get lost scrolling in it.

2. Look outside your traditional shopping places.

Although brands such as Forever 21, Shein, and Fashion Nova are very popular, they're pretty generic and contribute a lot to fast fashion. It's OK to get clothing from big brands, but there are lots of other options.

I always recommend going to thrift or secondhand stores — it's cheaper, more environmentally friendly, and you can find vintage and one-of-a-kind pieces. If going thrifting in person is too much of a time commitment (sometimes you have to search for the perfect piece!), thanks to the wonders of the Internet, you can go thrifting online. Sites such as Depop, Poshmark, and eBay are great resources to find secondhand clothing or hard-to-find pieces.

3. Start with the basics first.

When curating your style, try to find pieces that will look good in multiple styles. When looking at a piece of clothing, I think about how it will look with clothing I already have, and how I can layer it in different ways. For example, turtlenecks look classic and sophisticated on their own, but can also be worn under a t-shirt or tank top for a cute layered look.

It's best to also start with more neutral pieces before adding more eccentric ones. Maybe you find an amazing pair of colorful plaid pants, but do you have any tops that would go with them? When you have a good basis of basics, it leads you to have more choices when building outfits.

4. It's not just about the clothing.

One thing I've learned recently is that accessories are what can really help solidify your looks. Adding unique jewelry to a simple outfit can make it stand out, or maybe you want to wear a signature necklace that makes each outfit yours. Belts, socks, and hair pieces all add a little extra something. Play around with different things and see what looks best to you.

Additionally, shoes are so important. They're usually a little bigger of an investment, but having a few great pairs helps bring your style all together.

5. Know that you look best when you're most confident.

Something I hear people say often is that they wish they could "pull off" a certain look. To which I say — what's stopping you? Ignore arbitrary rules about what you should and shouldn't wear, and move into wearing what you truly want to, regardless of body type or size.

Once you move away from basic ways of dressing, you may feel like you stand out — so embrace it! Most of the time when people look at you, it'll be with admiration. Even if people are critical, know that it comes from a place of jealousy or insecurity.

Seeing someone express themselves and be happy is one of the most beautiful things. Fashion doesn't define who you are, but it can make you feel like your most authentic, confident self. So go out and show the world that you look great!

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

190623
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

15128
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

458025
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

26715
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments