To My Future Husband: Please Be Patient With Me | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

To My Future Husband: Please Be Patient With Me

A letter of warning so you know what you're getting into

344
To My Future Husband: Please Be Patient With Me
Vimeo

Dear future husband,

For starters: I really hope that you exist. I just want to put that out there. I know that it's possible you don't, but I really hope you do.

If we've made it to the point of you marrying me, then you've somehow been able to handle all of the weirdness that I bring to the table, so props to you.

You really must be a keeper if you've stayed this long. (I can be quite a handful sometimes.)

If you exist, there are some things that you need to know before you enter into this lifelong commitment with me...

The fun things...

I'm...eccentric...to say the least. I've known it my whole life, and it's not a part of me that I hide very well.

In fact, I don't really try.

I may randomly burst into fits of terrible singing. I really hope you sing along. I need someone to join in on my weirdness. I really want someone who can sing, and will be my lifelong duet partner.

I can JAM in the car no matter how long the ride is. Singing and dancing. I'll need you to do the same.

I am a terrible dancer. I hope you're just as terrible or will be willing to teach me if you're actually good.

Be prepared to eat a lot of mac and cheese, because I really don't cook very well yet. I'm learning, but it may take a while for the food to actually look and taste good.

My family is just as weird as I am, and I hope you guys get along really well.

You're going to be my best friend, and I'm going to need you to fit right in with the rest of the fam.

They're crazy, but if you're marrying me, you're probably crazy too.

And the serious things...

I will probably double check that you're no longer mad at me after a fight.

Triple check.

Quadruple check.

I need to be sure we're okay. I may apologize more than once...even for little arguments.

Sometimes, I am hesitant to try new things or make big decisions. I may just need a little push, but please also be patient.

Be prepared for tears.

Whether it's that time of the month, a really sad movie or I am really angry about something, tears just seem to come out sometimes.

I need someone who will care, in the sense that they will try and help.

I need someone who can't stand to see me hurting, so they do what they can to see that I get better.

I like reassurance. Especially reassurance and proof that you love me--your words and your actions need to match.

I've made mistakes with others and with you in the past, and mistakes will continue to be made for the rest of our lives, so please don't give up on me.

If you do, I will probably tell myself you no longer care about me.

I need someone willing to work through issues, someone, willing to communicate.

Be prepared to be the spiritual leader in the household. We walk this life together, along with Christ, and I need to not only know that, but I need to see it in your actions.

So, my dear future husband, I can't wait to meet you. Meeting and knowing you will be one of the best things to ever happen to me.

I have big plans for us and our future.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

A Few Thoughts Every College Freshman Has

The transition into adulthood is never easy

19626
Mays Island
Courtney Jones

Today I started my third week of college at Minnesota State Moorhead. I have survived welcome week, finding my classes on the first day, and being an awkward loner in the dining hall. Even though I have yet to be here for a month, I have already experienced many thoughts and problems that only a new college student can relate to.

Keep Reading...Show less
Students walking on a sunny college campus with trees and buildings.

"Make sure to get involved when you're in college!"

We've all heard some variation of this phrase, whether it came from parents, other family members, friends, RAs, or college-related articles. And, like many clichés, it's true for the most part. Getting involved during your college years can help you make friends, build your resume, and feel connected to your campus. However, these commitments can get stressful if you're dealing with personal issues, need to work, or aren't sure how to balance classes and everything else going on during the semester.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

9 Reasons Why Friends Are Essential In College

College without friends is like peanut butter without jelly.

8272
Bridgaline Liberati and friends
Bridgaline Liberati

In college, one of the essential things to have is friends. Yes, textbooks, a laptop, and other school supplies are important but friends are essential. Friends are that support system everybody needs. The more friends you have the better the support system you have. But you also have someone to share experiences with. And don’t settle for just one or two friends because 8 out of 10 times they are busy and you are studying all alone. Or they have other friend groups that do not include you. Don’t settle for just one or two friends; make as many friends as you can. After the first couple of weeks of college, most friend groups are set and you may be without friends.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Power of Dressing Up

Why it pays to leave the hoodie at home.

6014
sneakers and heels
Sister | Brother Style - Word Press

For a moment your world is spinning. The phone alarm has just scared you awake and you’re flooded by daunting thoughts of the day ahead. You have three assignments due and little time to work on them because of your job. You’re running late because you’ve hit snooze one to many times after yesterday’s long hours. You dizzily reach for a hoodie, craving its comfort, and rush for a speedy exit, praying you will have time to pick up coffee. Does this sound familiar?

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Signs You Live At The Library As Told by 'Parks And Recreation'

A few signs that you may live in the library whether you'd like to admit it or not.

5209
brown wooden book shelves with books

Finals week is upon us. It is a magical time of year during which college students everywhere flock to the library in attempt to learn a semester's worth of knowledge in only a week. For some students, it's their first time in the library all semester, maybe ever. Others have slaved away many nights under the fluorescent lights, and are slightly annoyed to find their study space being invaded by amateurs. While these newbies wander aimlessly around the first floor, hopelessly trying to find a table, the OGs of the library are already on the third floor long tables deep into their studies. Here is a few signs that you may live in the library, whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments