I Want To Be There | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Entertainment

I Want To Be There

This is what I plan on giving.

Kenny Young
Dec 26, 2016
Grace College & Theological Seminary
3
I Want To Be There

I’m not sure how many people that read this are a child of divorce or from a single-parent family. I don’t know how you got there; maybe you’re parent passed or moved or left… I’m not sure, but odds are, a fair amount of you reading this understand. I guess that after awhile you realize the mistakes your parents made.

I don’t mean that in a bad way but more of a “wow, my mom had A LOT on her plate and sometimes she didn’t always know what was going on at school, but I turned out alright” kind of moment. I know our single parents wanted to be there for more things but for whatever reason, they couldn’t be. But I want to be there.

I want to be there when my child takes his/her first steps.

I want to be there when they speak for the first time.

I want to be there when they start school.

I want to be there when they have their first boyfriend/girlfriend.

I want to see them go to prom.

I want to be there for their first heartbreak.

I want to see them graduate.

I want to meet their kids.

I want to be a part of their lives in every way that I can.


Not only that, but I want to be a part of the life of the person I love, too. I want to be madly in love with someone. I want someone to be there on the other side of the bed when I wake up in the mornings and I want someone to be there to make breakfast for. I want to be a part of everything I feel like I should have seen in my house as a kid and also, letting my kids be a part of everything I know I should have had as a kid.

I don't just want to be there, I plan to be there.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Swoon

To The Girls With "Daddy Issues," You Are Worthy Of The Love He Never Gave You

You are not alone.

6186
girl with a hat
Persnickety Prints on Unsplash

This is for the girls who have dealt with an emotionally, mentally, physically or verbally abusive father.

The ones who have grown up with a false lens of what love is and how relationships should be. The ones who have cried themselves to sleep wondering why he hurts you and your family so much. This is for all the girls who fall in love with broken boys that carry baggage bigger than their own, thinking it's their job to heal them because you watched your mother do the same.

Keep Reading...Show less
single life
Entertainment

Why Blair Waldorf Is The Realest Bitch To Ever Live

XOXO, Gossip Girl.

Michigan State University
1039
Blair Waldorf Quote
"DESTINY IS FOR LOSERS. IT'S JUST A STUPID EXCUSE TO WAIT FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN INSTEAD OF MAKING THEM HAPPEN." - BLAIR WALDORF.

The world stopped in 2012 when our beloved show "Gossip Girl" ended. For six straight years, we would all tune in every Monday at 9:00 p.m. to see Upper Eastside royalty in the form of a Burberry headband clad Blair Waldorf. Blair was the big sister that we all loved to hate. How could we ever forget the epic showdowns between her and her frenemy Serena Van Der Woodsen? Or the time she banished Georgina Sparks to a Christian summer camp? How about that time when she and her girls took down Bart Bass? Blair is life. She's taught us how to dress, how to be ambitious, and most importantly, how to throw the perfect shade.

Keep Reading...Show less
blair waldorf
Student Life

11 Moments Every College Freshman Has Experienced

Because we made it, and because high school seniors deserve to know what they're getting themselves into

Drexel University
386
too tired to care

We've all been there. From move-in day to the first finals week in college, your first term is an adventure from start to finish. In honor of college decisions coming out recently, I want to recap some of the most common experiences college freshmen experience.

1. The awkward hellos on move-in day.

Awkward Icarly GIFfrom Awkward GIFs

You're moving your stuff onto your floor, and you will encounter people you don't know yet in the hallway. They live on your floor, so you'll awkwardly smile and maybe introduce yourself. As you walk away, you will wonder if they will ever speak to you again, but don't worry, there's a good chance that you will make some great friends on your floor!

Keep Reading...Show less
freshman
Student Life

21 Things I've Learned About College Life

College is not what everyone expects it to be.

SUNY Plattsburgh
187
laptop
Unsplash

The college years are a time for personal growth and success. Everyone comes in with expectations about how their life is supposed to turn out and envision the future. We all freak out when things don't go exactly as planned or when our expectations are unmet. As time goes on, we realize that the uncertainty of college is what makes it great. Here are some helpful reminders about life in college.

Keep Reading...Show less
college life
Student Life

Top 10 Lessons I Learned My Freshman Year

The first year of college opens your eyes to so many new experiences.

Ripon College
67
johnson hall
Samantha Sigsworth

Recently I completed my freshman year of college, and boy, what an experience. It was a completely new learning environment and I can't believe how much I learned. In an effort to save time, here are the ten biggest lessons I learned from my first year of college.

1. Everyone is in the same boat

Meep Fishes GIFfrom Meep Fishes GIFs

For me, the scariest part of starting school was that I was alone, that I wouldn't be able to make any friends and that I would stick out. Despite being told time and time again that everyone had these same feelings, it didn't really click until the first day when I saw all the other freshman looking as uneasy and uncomfortable as me. Therefore, I cannot stress this enough, everyone is feeling as nervous as you.

Keep Reading...Show less
freshman year

Trending Topics

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments