Every girl has this vision of the perfect husband. Whether or not that Prince Charming who will come and sweep you off your feet exists, you've set standards for yourself and you shouldn't settle for anything less. I've come to realize that having that picture perfect guy isn't really what is important. I want a guy who puts me second.

I want a guy after someone else's heart other than my own. Someone who is so in love with God that it shines into the lives of those around him. Seems far-fetched in this day and age, but I've been raised to know how strong a love can be when God is at the center of it.

Imagine that there could be some guy out there praying that you exist and that one day he will find you. He places his life in God's hands and trusts that everything will work out. Imagine a husband that reads the Bible with you, prays with you, and encourages you when you need lifted up. He'll hold your hand through your hardest days and reminds you that God is still good in the storm. I want a guy who puts others before himself to show the love of Christ to the world. Someone who looks for ways to love people more deeply and never fails to lend a helping hand when he is needed.

So, to all those girls out there desperately awaiting their soulmate and praying that he exists, don't settle. Maybe there's a guy out there waiting for you. Don't stop your daydream, lose yourself in God's heart and if it's meant to be it will be. Trust God's timing and he will place you in the hands of a man after a heart other than his own, a guy who puts you second.