I honestly believe that everyone who hasn’t found the person they are supposed to marry wants to find that person so badly. I know that I do, but why are we all in such a hurry to do so? Doesn’t God have a plan for us and them?
Because we what to find the right person, we tend to want to take matters into our own hands. This can be very stupid because when you try to rush anything, you will probably miss out on the beauty that God already created for that situation. God has a plan that you cannot rush. He made it perfect. Trying to rush it and trying to create something that is not there will make for some not so perfect outcomes.
I think we forget about one very important thing that is found in the Bible. God created Adam after He created the other things of the Earth. He looked at Adam and decided to create someone to be Adam’s companion. God created Eve who was compatible with Adam and was just right to help him during their lifetime. God knew exactly what Adam needed and exactly when he needed it. He loved Adam so much to create someone for him to love him on Earth.
Doesn’t God love us just as much as He loved Adam and Eve? Yes, He does which means that God has taken the time to create the one person who will love you forever and help make you a better person. This also means that God knows what you need exactly when you need it. He is the author of our story which means He has written exactly who, what, when, where, why, and how we will meet “the one.” So then why do we worry so much and become so impatient? Honestly, I can’t answer that because I feel everyone is different. We do need to keep in mind though that waiting is the best thing for us. It will happen, but only when the timing is just right.