Let’s talk about sex.

I promise that you won’t want to miss this. With Valentine’s Day approaching I’m sure many of us are getting ready for a night filled with non-stop sex (and if you’re not you should reconsider). Once you get past the awkwardness of revealing so much of yourself to another person you come to find that sex is fun. Sex is freeing!

I’m not going to mince words. I have a lot of sex. It’s easy to get bored quickly with sex if you aren’t experimenting, but Valentine’s Day is your opportunity. It’s time to mix it up.

Go out and buy yourself some nice lingerie that makes you feel special. I personally like to find smaller boutiques in my area, so that I can find pieces that aren’t everywhere in stores. It’s important to start out the night feeling confident in yourself. Bring in toys you may have never considered using before. Nothing too scandalous maybe just some handcuffs or a blindfold (a little Fifty Shades of Grey). Then get a little more honest in bed with your significant other. Telling them all the secret things that you want them to do will not only turn them on even more, it will bring you closer to them. Isn’t that what we all want on Valentine’s Day to feel closer to the person we love.

Who knows you may even surprise your significant other with your boldness and it could lead to the best sex of your life. That’s what I strive for every Valentine’s Day: better sex than I’ve ever had before.