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9 Classic Rom-Coms Traits That Have Conditioned Me To Have Unrealistic Expectations About Love

Falling in love, at first sight, is overrated.

Lauren Yu

Aug 27, 2018

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9 Classic Rom-Coms Traits That Have Conditioned Me To Have Unrealistic Expectations About Love

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I just finished watching "To All The Boys I've Loved Before" on Netflix, and I was genuinely impressed by how real, yet unrealistic the film was. Needless to say, I do love my romantic comedies, but they honestly result in fantasies that most likely will never happen. I'm sorry to be a buzzkill, but it's true!

1. Serenading you in a stadium to fix all the issues

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He sounds good and all, but what happens to all the issues?? Do they just magically disappear after one song?

2. Doing things that would definitely be considered a bit weird in reality

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These signs are a tad bit creepy, and this definitely isn't realistic given all the technology we have now.

3. He’ll love you AFTER you change

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Ok, this is just a bummer because you shouldn't have to change for a guy.

4. The guy just HAPPENS to be there when you’re in trouble

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Damsel in distress, much? How did he know your exact location and match the time?

5. The guy will fight for your love no matter what

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Fighting for a love that isn't meant to be is just tiring and short-lasting.

6. A guy will die for you even though you only met a week ago

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They literally met a week ago, and THERE WAS SPACE FOR TWO!

7. Your significant other will love you regardless of your physical appearance

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This is actually debatable, but honestly physical appearance is one of the first things that draws you towards a person.

8. Kissing in the rain

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I doubt it's romantic with all that cold rain dripping down your face and hair getting in the way.

9. Airport reunions and declarations of love

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How did they find the person in a huge airport, and how the heck did they even get past the security check?

As much as I love these rom-coms, they set unrealistic expectations for both guys and girls. Maybe love is like this during the honeymoon stage, but in reality, love is hard and sacrificial. I mean, I've never really been in love, but looking at others' relationships makes me doubt that these rom-coms reflect real relationships.

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9 Classic Rom-Coms Traits That Have Conditioned Me To Have Unrealistic Expectations About Love

Falling in love, at first sight, is overrated.

1. Serenading you in a stadium to fix all the issues

2. Doing things that would definitely be considered a bit weird in reality

3. He’ll love you AFTER you change

4. The guy just HAPPENS to be there when you’re in trouble

5. The guy will fight for your love no matter what

6. A guy will die for you even though you only met a week ago

7. Your significant other will love you regardless of your physical appearance

8. Kissing in the rain

9. Airport reunions and declarations of love

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May the odds be ever in your favor.

Phase One: The “I got this” phase

Phase Two: The “I have time” phase

Phase Three: The uncontrollable sobbing phase

Phase Four: The “help me, I've fallen and I can't get up” phase

Phase Five: The rejoicing phase

10 ways to prepare for finals week—beginning with getting to the library.

Who knows where we would be without them.

1. Thank you for laughing at my jokes, even when they really aren’t funny.

2. Thank you for singing unbearably loud with me all the time.

3. Thank you for letting me vent to you for hours about anything and basically being my personal therapist.

4. Thank you for ordering pizza with me at 2 in the morning.

5. Thank you for all the movie days when we don’t feel like moving.

6. Thank you for being my workout buddy everyday.

7. Thank you for sharing your closets with me.

8. Thank you for taking naps with me at random hours during the day.

9. Thank you for cleaning our home with me when we absolutely need to.

10. Thank you for all the rides when it’s late and you don’t want me to walk home alone in the dark.

11. Thank you for studying with me in our kitchen when we didn't want to go the library.

12. Thank you for making dinner with me.

13. Thank you for helping with my hair, makeup and outfit every time we go out.

14. Thank you for taking countless ugly pictures with me.

15. Thank you for not judging me when I go too long without showering.

16. Thank you for making our apartment feel like a second home.

17. Thank you for being there through all of our boy troubles.

18. Thank you for giving me a hug when I feel homesick.

19. Thank you for getting excited with me when one of us gets a good grade on an exam.

20. Thank you for still being my friend and not judging me when I say or do dumb things.

21. Thank you for telling me what I should do when I am sick.

22. Thank you for dancing horribly with me everywhere we go.

23. Thank you for staying up super late with me when we aren’t tired or can’t sleep.

24. Thank you for being super weird with me.

25. Thank you for all the unforgettable college memories.

26. And most of all, thank you for being the best friends a girl could have.

I may or may not be stressing right now.

1. "What do I have to study for?"

2. "What class do I need to study for the most?"

3. "I’m going to ace this."

4. "Focus!"

5."I have no idea what I'm reading."

6. "I should call my smart friend about this."

7. "I’m going to fail. I’m going to fail."

8. "I’m dropping out of school."

9. "What grade do I have to get on the final to pass the class?"

10. "Oh, no, I have to do good."

11. "I shouldn’t have procrastinated all semester."

12. "I wanna go to bed."

13. "We did not learn this!"

14. "I should go get food."

15. "Why do we even have finals?"

16. "I don’t want to be at the library."

17. "Get off your phone."

18. "I can watch Netflix for like 20 minutes and then go back to studying."

19. "I shouldn’t have watched Netflix."

20. "You have to study now!"

The "Happiest Place on Earth" has a lot of characters with some pretty great advice.

Remember you’re the one who can fill the world with sunshine. — Snow White

The past can hurt. But the way I see it, you can either run from it or learn from it. — Rafiki

You don't have time to be timid. You must be bold and daring. — Lumière

If watching is all you're gonna do, then you're gonna watch your life go by without ya. — Laverne

Sometimes the right path is not the easiest one. — Grandmother Willow

Always let your conscience be your guide. — Jiminy Cricket

To infinity and beyond. — Buzz Lightyear

Life is a journey to be experienced, not a problem to be solved. — Pooh

Let it go. — Elsa

If you can't say something nice, don't say nothin' at all. — Thumper

Today's special moments are tomorrow's memories. — Genie

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