We have now entered a time in society when the world is crawling with fuckboys. This amount is only going to increase, but why do guys feel the need to adopt this lifestyle is beyond me. Here is why I think it is entirely unnecessary to live the fuckboy lifestyle.
Here is the definition of a fuckboy according to the dictionary.
fuckboy
/ˈfəkˌboi/
noun
1.a weak or contemptible man.
a man who has many casual sexual partners.
That right there says enough for itself, but if you want more explanation on why being a fuckboy is absolutely ridiculous and a waste of time, then here is my take on it.
*cracks knuckles, *does lunges, *cracks neck.
Here we go.
The male gender feels as if it is unmanly to show emotion, but fuckboys take it to a whole new level. Not only do they not show emotion, but they do it to the point of not caring about how their actions affect others.
Fuckboys are constantly hurting others and not caring about how they make other people feel. They go out of their way to do anything that makes them look cool in front of their buddies and will hurt anyone in the process. They will do anything that boosts their ego and not care how they affect others. In fact, the more they tear someone down in the process, the better.
This is absolutely ridiculous. It is not okay to tear other people down, especially women, just to make yourself look good in front of your buddies, or boost your ego. Put on your big boy pants, put your ego aside and take the high road. Do what is right, because treating people with a lack of respect is so middle school.
You aren't fooling anyone. You have a heart beating inside your chest, so you obviously have emotions and opinions. It is inevitable to not get your feelings hurt, so stop hiding it and act and react like a normal human being like the rest of us. By hiding your feelings you are only hurting yourself. You are hurting your mental health, and the further you keep up the act, the more your mental health is going to suffer. You are going to regret that in no time.
I know you and your buddies think that it is cool to have a high number of sexual partners—but news flash—you guys are the only ones. It is A. Absolutely disgusting. B. You probably have an STD C. It makes us feel worthless because to you we are just a number, not a human being, who you actually care about.
That makes us feel absolutely worthless.
You treat us more of an object than a human being, let alone even a woman. We deserve love and respect and to be treated like the women we are. Think of it this way, how would you feel if your son acted like you? How would you like it if your son treated people, women the way that you do? Or how would you feel if your daughter dated someone like you?
Mic drop.
Enough said.
Think about it. It's ridiculous. So quit the act and be a real man, because that's what we want. You will make real, genuine connections if you become a true gentleman. The world doesn't need any more fuckboys.
We need men.