I have always noticed this worlds intolerance for others and the differences we have which divide us so. This being said, I would just like to simply point out the benefits of being understanding.
We can all decide to be assholes and act as if our way is the right, and only way but you are ignorant if not blatantly stupid if you believe this. Remember this one simple fact: there is no way, no precise direction, or train of thought that is perfect or whole. Our differences define us and are there for us. We are all fractals of a whole and as such, we should understand each other or at least try.
One benefit of being understanding is that it opens you up to many new perspectives. With these perspectives, if you choose the right ones, life can be much more beautiful than you can imagine. I notice of late people tend to always focus on the negative perspectives and not the positive ones. Even sometimes I have issues with this. That is why I know in contrast which perspectives are more beneficial to you. Plus the more perspectives you are exposed to with an open mind the more understanding you will be to any and all perspectives even ones you don't necessarily agree with. This, in turn, makes you a more understanding person also a most agreeable person too all at the same time.
People always like someone who understands. Understanding has exposed me to some of the most beautiful people. Even if they don't see the beauty within themselves. I have made some long lasting meaningful connections with the people I now call friends some even family. When friends come into your life the right ones they can also enrich the quality of your life. Good people attract good people I have noticed even within what some would consider the wrong crowd. When I say good people, I speak of the nature of the individual.
Also with understanding, you can gain wisdom. With this, you can do many things. True wisdom comes along with true understanding. Through this wisdom, you can guide people in the right direction when they need. Whether that be friends, family, etc. Understanding opens the door for you to be a better person. If we could all just simply sit down, be honest and practice the most human thing within us: the ability to understand, and help our fellow brothers and sisters in this crazy thing we call life. I feel as if the world would be a better place.
Sincerely, Sean E. Landrock