I have the hardest time with breakups.

In my life, it's not a real break up if we haven't broken up at least two times prior to the breakup spat currently taking place.

I'm a safety dater. I will go back to ex's at the drop of the hat because 1) I am too afraid to put myself out there for new dating, 2) They are my comfort; my safety net or 3) I just don't want to be single anymore.

But lucky for me, I've created the Ultimate 'Boy Bye' Playlist to listen to when I need a little more encouragement to stick to my guns and remember that there was a reason that we broke up in the first place.

1) "Needed Me" - Rihanna

2) "Send my Love (To Your New Lover)" - Adele

'Send my love to your new lover
Treat her better
We've gotta let go of all of our ghosts
We both know we ain't kids no more'

3) "DONE." - The Band Perry

'You're one bridge I'd like to burn
Bottle up the ashes, smash the urn
I'm through with you'

4) "Shout Out to My Ex" - Little Mix

'This is a shout out to my ex
Heard he in love with some other chick
Yeah yeah, that hurt me, I'll admit
Forget that boy, I'm over it'

5) "Whistle While You Work It" - Katy Tiz

'That's why you gotta
Never let 'em see you down, see you down
Gotta smile while you're hurting
And whistle while you work it'

6) "Died On The Table" - Eh440

'Boy, I'm over it cause you don't see me crying
No, we're past the point of trying to revive it
Say goodbye to what we used to be
This love died on the table'

7) "Alarm" - Anne-Marie

'I'm better than this, I know my worth
I might be getting what I deserve
But I ain't sticking 'round for the rerun
What's done is done'

8) Comeback - Ella Eyre

'When he returns he puts you in a situation
But it's too late to have that kinda conversation
It's not your job to show this boy some education, no
Now ain't it funny how we never seem to work it out'

9) "Feeling Myself" - Nicki Minaj

'I'm feelin' myself, I'm feelin' myself
I'm feelin' my, feelin' myself'

10) "You're Such A" - Hailee Steinfeld

'You're such a
Difficult little Devil
Trying to put it back together
Cause you see I'm doing better
Without you now'

11) "Hair" - Little Mix

'You need to get your phone, erase that number
Don't call him back 'cause he don't deserve that
And when you see him in the club
Just flip your hair, don't show him any love
'Cause you've had enough'

12) "Good as Hell" - Lizzo

'Come now, come dry your eyes
you know you a star, you can touch the sky
I know that it’s hard but you have to try
if you need advice let me simplify
if he don’t love you anymore
just walk your fine *ss out the door'

13) "GQ" - Lola Coca

'Stop wasting my time
Even on the cover of GQ
I am never going home with you
A leather jacket don't impress me'

'He trying to roll me up (I ain't sorry)
I ain't picking up (I ain't sorry)
Headed to the club (I ain't sorry)
I ain't thinking 'bout you (I ain't sorry)'