Coming to college as a first-semester freshman means a lot of new, fun, and exciting things are about to happen. From the day Senior year ended all the way to move in day -family, friends, and strangers (like the kind, wise man in Bed Bath and Beyond) are giving you all the advice they feel you need to hear before embarking on this new journey. I’m now almost done with my first semester and there are a few things I have learned that I’d love to share with you.
1. Truth: College is non-stop.
Coming to college, everything starts fast, and the stop sign is nowhere in sight. Everything, and I mean everything, is always happening at the same time: sleep, schoolwork, meetings, field trips, dance practices, and let’s not forget parties. Sleep is precious and if you have the opportunity of getting seven restful hours of sleep a night, take it. Because when you do not get enough sleep, the dreaded freshman sickness will hit, and trust me it is a real thing. School work and studying are constant. Between every class and activity, you try to find time to study. Of course, you'll carry your flashcards everywhere just in case you have the rare moment to look them over in your downtime. On the other hand, social events happen almost every day, too. Themed parties and philanthropy events take up just as much time as studying. Balance is critical - find it and master it!
2. Lie: Don't take a 9 A.M. class.
In my personal opinion, the earlier classes you take, the better. Everyone warned me that I shouldn't take early classes, which is good on some mornings, but I believe starting my day early is better than ending class at 7 P.M. Having a class that ends late can get in the way of other things you could be doing such as studying, taking a workout class, or just catching up with yourself. It is essential to get into a routine when you go to college. Set your alarm and get your school work done. But make sure to leave some time to do things you enjoy. It'll be helpful in the long-run.
3. Truth: Distance makes the heart grow fonder.
Going to a new place for college means meeting a ton of new friends. As exciting as this can be, it also means you start to miss your friends from home, your family and your pets. You appreciate the huge support system you had back at home even more. It is true what they say: distance does make the heart grow fonder. Sometimes phone calls, Snapchats, and Facetime are just not enough. Catch up with those you love and miss often - this will make the distance seem a little less and make the heart a little happier.