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8 Thoughts You Have When You Turn 20

No longer being a teenager can render a LOT of questions and concerns.

Lindsay Messina

Jun 24, 2019

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I was born on June 9, 1999, so recently, I celebrated my 20th birthday. Like most people, I really enjoy celebrating my birthday, and love spending time with my loved ones when it comes around. Turning 20 felt different though. Unlike most other birthdays, it made me think critically about the fact that I am transitioning into adulthood.

It is so strange to me that I am not considered a teenager anymore. Even though 18 is the legal age requirement of adulthood, turning 20 really made me feel like an adult.

1. Finally, I’m no longer a teenager!

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Realizing this makes you feel important, mature, and like you finally have everything falling into place.

2. Oh my god, wait… I’m no longer a teenager…

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You've been a teenager for six years, and when you were younger, you longed to be one. Not being a teenager is the first step in realizing you are a "real" adult.

3. One more year until I can legally drink!

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Finally, you won't be the odd one left out among your older friends and family. Time to start the countdown!

4. I’m so old.

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In reality, you aren't, but adulthood's rapid approach does make you feel this way. Also, looking at current high schoolers and middle schoolers is a quick way to make you feel super old. When did everyone get so young??

5. I’m almost out of college!!

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No more schooling. No more homework. It's every student's dream. At least, for students like me who hate homework and tests.

6. Oh, no...I’m almost out of college…

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Most people do not pursue secondary degrees, so this means that you're almost done being a student. It's scary, thinking about being in the real world and not relying on the schedule of doing homework and studying that I've gotten used to.

7. What next?

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I'll have a degree after college, but so what? I have no idea what I want to do, so I better figure it out fast. Thinking about the future is a scary but freeing experience at the same time. There are no restrictions, so you can dream big. However, actually planning for the future takes time and organization.

8. Can I do this?

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This question is a big one. Turning 20 makes you wonder about your self worth and if you have what it takes to be an adult. The answer is you 100% are capable of doing it.

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8 Thoughts You Have When You Turn 20

No longer being a teenager can render a LOT of questions and concerns.

In This Article:

1. Finally, I’m no longer a teenager!

2. Oh my god, wait… I’m no longer a teenager…

3. One more year until I can legally drink!

4. I’m so old.

5. I’m almost out of college!!

6. Oh, no...I’m almost out of college…

7. What next?

8. Can I do this?

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1. Taking care of yourself when you're sick

2. Making a to-do list

3. Planning your activities around the weather

4. Scheduling your own doctor’s appointments

5. Getting your own toilet paper

6. Making food without needing to ask your mom questions

7. Holding your tongue

8. Saving your paycheck (or your tax refund) to pay your bills

9. Balancing your checkbook

10. Going places alone

11. Packing your own lunches

12. Actually eating your vegetables...on purpose

13. Taking a multivitamin

14. Planning a life after graduation

Sometimes bigger isn't always better.

1. If something happens, everyone knows about it

2. Never getting to be invisible

3. Knowing every single thing about every single person in the town

4. New kids are a big deal

5. It’s hard to make new friends

6. On that note ... the dating pool is even smaller!

7. Teachers are weirdly close to their students

8. It forced you to make friends out of school

"I'm hopeless and awkward and desperate for love"

1. That Time He Tested Out His Flirting Skills and This Happened

2. When He Was Willing to Do Anything to Avoid Confrontation

3. When He Couldn't Handle Awkward, Emotional Situations

4. How He Reacted Whenever His Friends Ignored Him

5. All of the Times He Worried About His Failing Love Life

6. Whenever He Tried to Whip Himself Into Shape

7. How He Handled New People and New Experiences

8. Whenever His Friends Got Annoying, He Was Always the Voice of Reason

9. He Always Knew How to Jam

10. He Finds a Way to Make Any Situation More Fun

No, I can't help you.

1. When a customer wants to return a product, hands you the receipt, where is printed "ALL SALES ARE FINAL" in all caps.

2. Just because you might be having a bad day, and you're in a crappy mood, doesn't make it okay for you to yell at me or be rude to me. I'm a person with feelings, just like you.

3. People refusing to be put on hold when a customer is standing right in front of you. Oh, how I wish I could just hang up on you!

4. Having the same conversations over and over again! To be honest I really don't even want to talk to you right now, or have this fake ass smile on my face!

5. Always having to have a smile on your face. I promise I'm not as happy as I may look!

6. Customers not understanding that sometimes, mistakes happen. I am a human being, we all mess up sometimes!

7. Having the boss from hell, it's their way or the highway! Even though I did my job correctly and efficiently, if I don't do it the exact way you do, I'm a piece of shit.

8. Having coworker who don't help out, who bend the rules just enough to screw you over.

9. Having to be at work after closing because a customer is taking forever and half! Not like I'd like to go home or anything!

10. Having shitty hours and more shifts than you asked for. Just because we don't have enough workers, doesn't mean I want to pick up every shift that you cant cover, oh great boss of mine!

11. Not having time for a social life. It gets old saying, "I can't I have work..." Every day of the week!

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It's just my face, I swear.

1. When you meet new people, they automatically assume you hate them or are rude.

2. People are constantly asking you if you're OK.

3. After being friends with someone for a while, they confess to you, "I thought you were so mean when I first met you," or, "I thought you hated me."

4. You get told to smile more, but they don't understand how scary that would be.

5. You're always labeled as seeming "judgy."

6. Passing a friend with your RBF in full force and not realizing you just shot them a death glare.

7. Being sarcastic, but everyone thinks you're outright rude.

8. Not knowing how mean you really look until you see a picture of yourself in resting face.

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11. And, lastly, people are constantly asking you if you are happy or having a good time because you look bored to death.

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