Trust is such a simple word but rather than being simple, it is complex. Complex in the sense that it is built over a period of time. Not many people understand that trusting someone means having faith in you not to say something or be there for someone when you’re in need. I do not open up to anyone so if I open up to you, I feel that we have a special bond. It takes months, even years, for me to feel that I can open up to you. Don’t get it twisted, trust that took years or months to build up can be broken in a few minutes. If you open up to anyone and everyone, your business will probably get out before you can tell another person. Be careful of who you open up to, there are snakes who will act like they have your back but all they want is news to tell their friends and make fun of you. Trust is more than a word, it is an action. If I open up to you, I expect that you will keep whatever is said between us. I do not expect you to go run and tell everyone you know my personal business. Business is business. It is so hard to trust people now because they can exploit you on social media or they can tell their friends and word travels just as fast as a text message. Once you lose trust, it will make it harder for the other person to ever believe you. It can make your attitudes about certain people, or groups, change. Out of a negative incident, you will see true colors of people. I don’t care about anything anyone says if they ever betrayed my trust. Just know that if I find out that you did wrong to me, I will be patient and wait for karma.
Karma. Karma is another word that has different meanings. Karma is something I hold true to my heart. If you do wrong, I do not wish wrong upon you. Instead, I will let karma run it’s course. If you do wrong to others, it will come back to you. It might not happen instantly but it will happen down the line. You do not want to mess with karma because karma is very dangerous.
Do not let people who betrayed your trust bother you or call you two faced. They should be the last ones to speak considering they were the ones who broke your trust. There are certain things that are kept between two people and are meant for only two people to know, not everything said or done needs to be broadcasted.