" You have serious trust issues"
" why can't you just trust me?"
" Not everyone is going to lose your trust"
I've learned that it is a hard to trust anyone. It just is.
I have heard so many people try and tell me how I have trust issues but honestly I have just realized the reality of how a lot of people are going to leave or distrust you. But when you do find those people that love and care about you,you need to never let them go, they are valuable.
I am honestly sensitive about this topic because I feel like the worst thing a person can do to another is gain their trust and then manipulate that trust and hurt that person. It hurts and definitely isn't a fun thing to go through with anyone.
Trust takes time to be built.
I am just that type of person who is sensitive and is easily affected by others actions toward me. And trust me ( no pun intended) being a sensitive person has shown me a million times why I can't fully allow myself to rely on others unless I have had the time to see them as a person.
i'm sure you have all had a time where someone close to you has left or have went behind your back so you understand this. It sucks doesn't it?
Now this article isn't me telling you to not ever trust a soul and never get married or have friends but what I want you to get out of this, my friend is whether its trust issues or just a real world problem, take your time with others before you put your whole heart and soul into them because it will hurt if you don't. But also be the person to show others how to trust.