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Lessons On Love From My Grandparents

After 50+ years of marriage, the love between them continues to grow.

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A couple of years ago, my grandparents celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. At that time, I didn't really appreciate what this meant, but now I realize how amazing it really is. My grandparents have been married for over 50 years and still have the same love that they probably did when they were just 19 years old.

My grandparents have the type of love that everyone strives for in life. They take care of each other, stick up for each other, and love each other more than anything else in the world. They are exactly equal partners and really value each other's feelings and opinions. There is never a moment of doubt in their relationship, it is open, real, and honest.

The love between my grandparents is extremely apparent at all times; my grandma is constantly saying how cute my grandpa is, and they are always telling stories about how they met, started dating, and ultimately fell in love. Their love story is real, and is still being written today… the true meaning of "until death do us part".

My grandparents appreciate each other. They are always worried about making sure the other one is happy. They still throw surprise parties for each other and buy each other presents. It is honestly refreshing to see two people get along so well, yet still, play-fight all the time. Even when they are fighting, they are still calling each other "hun" and "babe".

When I look at them, I see what I want in life. I see a beautiful family and a love that will last forever. Our family is very close and full of love, and I think it is because they have built our family on such a sturdy foundation. They inspire me to be a better person and create a life like the one they have created for themselves. I love and appreciate them more than anything, and it is my grandparents (and my parents) who have taught me how to wholeheartedly love someone else and appreciate myself at the same time.

Some things in life can only be taught through experience, and a love like the one my grandparent's share has made me strive for better. I will never settle in life because I know that soul mates do exist and beautiful, loving, and strong relationships are NOT a myth. True love is real, and I have my grandparents to prove it.

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