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5 Topics To Broach With Your Opinionated Uncle At That Dreaded Christmas Dinner

Talking from experience, it definitely won't be a "Silent Night" if the topic of politics is brought up.

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Ah, the holidays. Christmas music, snowy days, getting together with family, and debating politics at the dinner table? Politics are a highly confrontational topic that can really take away from the holiday cheer. Talking from experience, it definitely won't be a "Silent Night" if the topic of politics is brought up.

1. The food

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Hail to the chef! They must have spent a lot of time preparing the food for the whole family to enjoy. Give compliments to whoever cooked the meal!

2. Your pets

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I could go on for days when it comes to talking about my dog. It is a light-hearted topic that everyone can enjoy. Make sure to show pictures too!

3. Sports

Unless sports are also a heated topic, it's a great topic to distract your relatives from the turmoil the government is in. Football, basketball, and hockey are in season during the holidays, so there are lots to talk about! Talk about how well (or poorly) your favorite team is doing. As a Patriots fan living in New Jersey, I've learned to avoid talking about football to keep peace at the dinner table.

4. Great shows or movies you've watched

Shows and movies are also good topics to talk about. Talk about a series you've watched or how excited you are for a movie coming out soon. Avoid talking about shows like "Designated Survivor" and "House of Cards," since those shows are an easy segway back to politics.

5. The well being of everyone there

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Ask everyone how they're doing. It's nice to hear what they're up to since you don't see each other all the time. Talk about travel plans, school, how you're feeling, or simply what you've been up to. Life is hectic and the holidays are meant to bring families together. Enjoy their company while they're there.

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