As an English Major, the words "to thine own self be true" is something I've probably heard easily five times in the last three weeks of this past semester. The famous lines spoken by Polonius in Hamlet are directed from a father to a son who is going away for school among a few other pieces of advice. Over the years, this is something I have struggled with quite a bit, and I even do somewhat to this day. If you have met me and talked to me just for five minutes, you probably know that I apologize for everything and anything, even when it isn't warranted.

That being said, in the past I have changed who I am to make others happy. This is the fastest track to making sure you're the least happy you could ever be. I would never suggest this, and especially never for a man. I've unfortunately done this, and I would never do it again. I am who I am, and a boyfriend should accept that. All this being said, I'm going to list things I've changed or been "ashamed" of in the past that I shouldn't be.

1. My love for Pokemon.

Of course this is number 1! I have never not loved Pokemon, but I have been ashamed of it. I've been told many times from many people (even strangers!) that Pokemon is for children. While that may be true, I could like far worse things.

2. My super lame English references.

My English fam understands this one more than anyone else. While my jokes or references may not always be the funniest, this is my humor, and I shouldn't be ashamed of it.

3. I apologize for my presence on a daily basis.

I always assume that I'm annoying the person that I'm with because I'm annoying? I don't know. I feel that I'm annoying, so I apologize for my existence.

4. I apologize for how much I talk.

My friends and Avery (sorry babe!) know just how much I talk, and I constantly find myself apologizing and saying I'll shut up or be quiet. Why? Obviously there are times when I shouldn't be talking, but I most often say this when in a car. What's so wrong with talking? Nothing unless it's inappropriate. So Alicia, yes current Alicia, stop apologizing for this.

So instead of changing yourself or apologizing for who you are, "to thine own self be true."