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To The person Who Doesn't Think They Are Enough- You Are Enough

You are more then you think you are.

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To The person Who Doesn't Think They Are Enough- You Are Enough
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You are enough.

You are so enough.

It is unbelievable how enough you are.

Today, know that YOU are good enough. Stop worrying if you are pretty enough, strong enough, wise enough, smart enough... You must KNOW that you are ENOUGH. Don't let negative thoughts have power over you, take a deep breathe and know that YOU matter and you are ENOUGH.

You don't need anyone's affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn't actually about you. It's about them and their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don't have to internalize that. Your worth isn't contingent upon other people's acceptance of you, its something inherent. You exist, and therefore, you matter. You're allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You're allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you're allowed to remove anyone from your like who makes you feel otherwise.

It doesn't matter who you used to be; what matters is who you decide to be today. You are not your mistakes. You are not your mishaps. You are not your past. You are not your wounds. You can decide differently today and at every moment, remember that. You are offered a new opportunity with each breath to think, choose, decide and act differently in a way that supports you in being all that you are capable of being. You are not less than. YOU ARE ENOUGH.

I think we spend too much time wondering why we're not good enough. We waste too much time putting ourselves down, that we don't ever stop to see that we are good enough. We spend too much time with our heads down and hearts closed, and never get a chance to look up from the ground and see that the sun is shinning and that tomorrow is another day.

So remember, you may never be good enough for some people, but you will ALWAYS be the best for whose who deserve you.

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