There's no question that we all have hard times in our life. And it's not a mystery that some people walk away during these times. But, the good people, they stay. During my own lengthy period of struggle and disappointment, I think it's safe to say that I watched a lot of people walk out of my life. But in the end, I found the people who didn't. I appreciated them and will never forget them. So, here's to the people who stuck by my side through the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Thank you for being my escape from the real world when I felt I couldn't get a grip on things.
Your nights full of snacking and watching movies and goofing off are nights that I consider to be some of the best of my life.
Thank you for dealing with my constant texts of complaint and confusion.
I won't even deny that I was probably the most annoying person on the planet sometimes. My ability to dwell on the negatives in life can be pretty overpowering sometimes, but you somehow managed to turn it around. Every. Single. Time.
Thank you for being, at most times, the only people to accept me and respect me.
It's hard to be kind to someone who can hardly be kind to themselves, yet you did it.
Thank you for randomly checking in with me when we've gone too long without talking.
I knew as we grew up we wouldn't be able to keep in touch as often as maybe preferred. Months without talking or seeing each other isn't ideal, but still there's a smile and hug waiting when we do meet up, or a text to say "hey" when it's been too long.
Thank you for reminding me that everyone has hard times.
I know there were times where I acted like I was the only one struggling, but you always reminded I wasn't alone, and I would get through this.
So, finally,
Thank you for loving me through it.
I will never forget all those nights together. Or the words of encouragement. Or the way you made me feel like a real person when I felt like everyone else around me made me feel like I was the scum of the earth. Our time together is something I cherish very deeply. No, we may not be as great of friends today, and we may hardly talk, but I wouldn't be where I am today, without our time together. You are a very large part of who I am, and I cannot thank you enough for loving me through my ugly days.