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To The Parents Who Pushed Me Before I Was Ready

I don't thank you enough.

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To The Parents Who Pushed Me Before I Was Ready

First of all, thank you. Without the extra nudge from the both of you, I truly cannot imagine where I would be, as a young woman.

It was anything from picking a college to helping me pick the people I allow to get close to me, to pretty much any fathomable portion of my life. You were both always by my side, guiding and pushing me to new limits. I wanted so badly, at times, to do it "my way" and ignore every piece of advice or any helping hand you would generously lend. In reality, my best interest was always your priority.

Sometimes I think of the mistakes I have made-thankfully none too severe-and I really question how different my life could be now, if I didn't follow your guidance and continue on the paths I had wondered off to. Truly, blessed.

Having such selfless parents, willing to sacrifice anything to see their child happy, is a wonderful thing. You've pushed me to shape who I am becoming today and I can only hope and pray that I make you both genuinely proud. I have grown to understand, appreciate, and never take for granted the limits I have been pushed to.

Of course we bump heads but that is just part of me trying to continue on the path on independence that you have instilled in me. Bumping heads or disagreements will never negate how incredibly grateful that I am.

My wish is for everyone to have the courage to push themselves to new limits-limits you dreamed impossible. Limits you're afraid of. Be the best version of yourself that you can be and never let anything stand in your way. Life is no doubt scary, but in the end, the worst feeling you can live with is regret.

To my parents who pushed me before I thought I was ready, thank you. You knew I was ready, before I did. You are my safety net, my supporters, and my shoulders to cry on.

Because of you, I am me. Thank you

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