First off, you are God’s child so you are enough for him and his followers.

Second off, you have more potential and a bigger heart than the person who told you that does.

Third off, who cares what people think?

I know that it is hard for people to not care what others think of them. It took me a long time to think this way. I have been through multiple “relationships” that ended this way before I realized this. It’s never easy to block out someone’s thoughts about you, especially if you really like them.

This is an issue every girl faces in life and even older adults.

To the girl who’s been told she’s never enough, you ARE enough. It isn’t going to matter what people think of you when you go to heaven or get a job. God is going to think you are enough for him. Also when you get a job, you are going to be enough for the job because that is how you got it in the first place. Another thing is that you are enough for your friends and your family members and that’s all that really matters. You do not need a man in your life to be happy.

That also took me time to figure out.

A lot of the things I am telling you about, takes time, efforts, and a support system. It helped me out a lot when I had at least one person to go to and talk about anything and everything with. She became my support system and I became hers. Also, my family members became my support system as well. It doesn’t matter who you pick to have that support system, but you at least need one to get through this. It definitely makes your life and self-esteem better.

You will always be enough in God’s eyes and in other people’s lives. If someone does not think you are good enough, then you need to kick them out of your life. They have a negative influence on your life and do NOT deserve your presence or time. Time is valuable and you should not waste it on dirt bags who think less of you.

NEVER settle for less!

We tend to do that when we get told we aren’t good enough and think that this is the only person who will care about us. In reality, there are plenty of people out there who think you are enough and that can treat you better. If your man doesn’t put in 100% like you do, leave him. He isn’t worth your time.

You have to be brave and stand up for yourself.

As Young M.A. would say, “These hates on my body shake ‘em off”. This girl has a point that we should follow and take seriously.