Who in their right mind has the right to call you easy?

They do not know who you are or what you’re going through. I have multiple friends who have been called easy, but it is because they have other issues in life. The girl that people cause “easy”, may have self-esteem issues or have a really bad experience with previous relationships. Also, they could have been told that they are ugly and cannot get a guy so this is their way of proving people wrong.

There are a lot of reasons why a girl may be “easy”, but is she really trying to be easy?

The answer is no. The reason women act this was is because they are so damaged from what society has told them and to what men have told them too. It is very hard for women to meet societies acceptations anyone. It used to be that guys were attracted to women who were easy to get with.

In reality, that is not what all men want, some men sadly do, but women think that this is the only way they can get close to someone.

I am not bashing anyone who has been called easy because honestly, 99% of women have probably already been called easy.

To all the women out there, you are not easy. You cannot help the way you think. It is societies fault on why you think the things you do. You cannot change the fact that you have been told you’re ugly and that you can’t get anyone. You cannot help that you think you will never be with someone unless you sleep with them.

My advice to you is to stop the haters. Call people out on their actions and make them realize that maybe you’re labeled “easy” because of what they have said to you. Tell them that maybe you act this way because they make you feel like crap and that society has put all this pressure on women to be something we are not. Stand up for yourself girl. In today’s society, you have to have a backbone or everyone is just going to step all over you.

Do not listen to what guys or girls think of you because your real friends will support you and the decisions you make. Also, a real friend will tell you if you’re being easy or not. I can promise you that because I am one of those friends. I will straight up tell my roommate if she is being easy or not. That is just what real friends do for each other. If you ask your friends and they say that you are not easy, then call out the people who say you are.

You are not easy if the person cannot give you at least one GOOD reason as to why you are easy. More than likely they are just calling you easy because they are jealous of you. Honestly, most girls are bitches and will tell you that you are easy because you hooked up with a really hot guy that they could never get.

So don’t listen to all the petty girls and douche bag guys because in reality, they have no idea who you are. The only people who really know you are your friends, family, and God. No one else matters. Just remember to not let people get to you and to have a backbone.

You got this girl. Don’t give up on yourself.

-Kate Huber