The story of how you two met must’ve been a magical one. There’s something about him that when he’s happy, he’ll smile with his lips. However, when he’s really happy, he’ll show his bright whites and laugh when he looks into your eyes. It is the greatest feeling looking at him when he has that facial expression. You’ll enjoy every moment of it, and don’t take it for granted.

He loves baseball. Well, he loves any and every sport for that matter. As long as you talk some kind of sports with him, he’ll love you regardless. He loves Reese’s peanut butter cups and anything chocolate, so make sure to get him candy every once in a while. He’ll want to get bagels in the morning and buffalo chicken cheesesteaks. He loves boost slashes, too. He isn’t a fan of talking on the phone, so don’t take it personally when he just wants to text you. He’s a family man, so if he brings you around his family and on vacations with them, you know it’s serious.

More importantly, love him like you mean it. Shower him with affection and tell him you love him every single day. Remind him of how much he means to you, and make sure he does the same for you. You deserve to be treated with the upmost respect, and so does he. You both deserve happiness and love in your relationship. You are so lucky to have him, it’s unreal.

I’m not the crazy ex-girlfriend who will insult your every flaw or make you feel miserable. I won’t say anything mean about you just to make myself feel better about missing him. I am much better than that. I’m here to say that even though I will always miss him dearly, I know that you will make him happier than ever. I want you to have the best life with him. Make the most amazing memories and get through the rough times together. Stay strong as a couple, as well as individually.

Please don’t break his heart. He deserves everything in the whole world and beyond, and please, if you can’t provide him that, then please don’t lead him on. If he breaks your heart, just know that he would never do it out of spite. He is a very genuine human being, and he’s only looking out for your best interest, even if you don’t agree with him. He is a one-of-a-kind person.

I wish every day that he and I ended up together. Maybe this letter I’m writing is to myself, and I may end up with him in the future. But if not, whoever you are, you are probably so beautiful and kind, because I know he has very high standards. If you and I met, we would probably become friends. You are most likely everything he has ever wanted, and I’m so grateful that he has you now. I hope that wherever life takes you both, you do it hand in hand.