To The Girl Who Fell In Love At The Wrong Time | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

To The Girl Who Fell In Love At The Wrong Time

"Don't give up on your hope for love because there is no worse way to live life than to live it while giving up on the idea of someone loving you. "

494
To The Girl Who Fell In Love At The Wrong Time
8tracks.com

Timing is not something that is planned out in our lives and sometimes that can be a good thing or it can end up being a terrible thing.

You meet the man of your dreams two weeks before you leave for college or a job hundreds of miles away. You finally become close to the boy you've had a crush on since sixth grade only for them to tell you weeks later that they don't have the same feelings towards you, or you date the guy you think you're going to marry only for them to break up with you a year later because they feel things are getting too serious for them. Whatever the scenario is, falling in love with someone at the wrong time hurts and it doesn't only hurt for a week or for a month, or even a few months.

It can hurt you for years or you may even get to a point where you're happy again, but there's always those days where that person creeps back into your mind. Most people wonder why this happens to them because most of the time when they get their heart broken, they wish they'd never met that person or they want to call it quits on finding love because it hurts and it's hurt badly but something that we all need to face eye to eye is the fact that the people we meet at the wrong time, even though we believed that it was right, are actually the wrong people for us and they were the wrong people for us from the beginning.

The reason the wrong people hurt so bad, though, is because in that very moment of loving them you wanted so badly for them to be the right person so you treated them like the right person. One day the person that is right for you will come along and you'll soon forget about how upset you were at life that you fell in love with who you believed to be the right person but it was the wrong time for you. You will soon forget about timing because the right person will make the world around you feel timeless. So for now if your timing isn't right, just wait because the right time will come. Don't give up on your hope for love because there is no worse way to live life than to live it while giving up on the idea of someone loving you.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Relationships

10 Facts All People In A Large Family Can Confirm During The Holiday Season

The holiday season can be the best and most stressful time of the year, especially when more people are involved.

61
kids jumping

The holidays are full of lights, sweets, sweaters, and your favorite movies. There's nothing quite like this period from the beginning of December through January. Christmas, Hanukkah, and New Years. The fun of it all.

I don't know about you but with my large Italian family something is always going on during this season. It can be the most wonderful time of the year while also being the most hectic. These are a few things you know if your family is anything like mine during this time.

Keep Reading...Show less
10 things that happen the second Thanksgiving is over
reference.com

To those who celebrate, you just spent an entire day cooking an elaborate meal with all of your favorite foods. You probably ate your body weight in pumpkin pie and mashed potatoes. What happens now? Oh yea, Christmas. It’s time to take out all of the decorations and Christmas themed things that have been sitting in the attic since last year; it’s time to make a reappearance. So, here are 10 things that happen the second Thanksgiving is over.

Keep Reading...Show less
Adulting

18 Things I Want To Do Now That I'm 18

I'm technically an adult, so I'm legally required to live a little, right?

3560
Happy Birthday Cake

For the entirety of my high school career, I was always seen as the goody-two-shoes. I never got in trouble with a teacher, I kept stellar grades, and when I wasn't doing extracurricular activities, I was at home studying. Even when I did go out, it was usually with a bunch of fellow band geeks. The night would end before 11:00 PM and the only controversial activity would be a fight based on who unfairly won a round of Apples-to-Apples when someone else clearly had a better card (I promise I'm not still holding a grudge).

Now that I'm officially an adult, I want to pursue some new things. I want to experience life in a way that I never allowed myself to do prior to entering college. These are the years that I'm supposed to embark on a journey of self-discovery, so what better way to do that than to create a bucket list?

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

10 Life Lessons from Christmas Classics

The holiday classics that shaped my life

2167
10 Life Lessons from Christmas Classics
Flickr

The holiday season is full of stress, debt, and forced conversation. While we rush through the month of December, it's important to take a step back and enjoy the moments before they're gone. Most families love to watch Christmas movies, but these beloved films provide more than entertainment. Here are 10 life lessons that I've learned from the holiday classics we watch every year.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

201494
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments