Rush is a scary process for all girls hoping to join a sorority. Most of this fear comes from the unknown questions we cannot answer. Such as, "what if they think I'm weird?" or "I think our conversation went well but I can't tell."
Many girls tend to build expectations going into rush and let me tell you as someone who has been through the process, that is the worst thing you can do.
Going into recruitment with a clear mind is vital. However, if you were the girl who did have expectations that did not turn out how you planned, everything is okay. Just like getting rejected from your "dream school" or not making it to the mall before it closed, everything happens for a reason.
As corny as this sounds, you are going to end up where you are supposed to be.
Yes, rejection hurts. However, do not let that stop you from dropping rush. Explore your other options and meet the people who want to meet you! It might be upsetting and confusing at first but if you give it time you will soon see that the sorority you ended up in is where you were meant to be.
Do not let rejection get in the way of you reaching out and meeting new people. You might not realize it at first but you are going to end up where you are supposed to be.
