Is your heart breaking? Can you feel it shattering in your chest as they walk away?

If so go look at yourself in the mirror and ask "did I really need him?"

Chances are you didn't, at the time it feels like your world is crashing down and its the worst possible thing that could be happening, but it's only the start of something better. Rather you just met him and wanted to give it a chance or you have been in a relationship for a while, it will be OK. Getting your hopes up and being let down hurts, especially when you have been built up with lies. Don't let them hurt you more than once, after the first time walk away and don't look back.

If you continue to let him back in he will think it is OK to contiue hurting you. Some guys just fill your head with so much crap, and they never even meant a word of it. Or maybe they meant every word of it but were to scared to take a chance on you becasue they are scared. But why wouldn't they take a chance on you when you were willing to take a chance on them and you're just as scared? I guess we will never know. You are probably sitting there asking yourself what you did wrong or what is wrong with you, but the truth is you did nothing wrong and there is nothing wrong with you. They missed their chance to be with someone great.

Love yourself.

If you are just getting out of a relationship, find yourself.

It is so easy to lose yourself while in a relationship. You worry about making them happy but you need to worry about yourself right now and no one else. It hurts to watch them walk away but it is worth it. I'm not saying the pain goes away easily because it doesn't but push through that pain and make yourself happy.

1. You will get hurt by someone you love in life, but do not just sit there and be sad get out and hang with friends.

2. You will meet someone else who you think will be worth the pain, but they might not think that you are. Don't let it get you down, if they aren't willing to give you a chance then they didn't deserve for you to give them one.

3. Friends will be your biggest supporter no matter what you decide to do. And if they don't hate the guy more than you do then are they really your best friend?

4. You're young, don't worry about love. You have your whole life to find the right guy, right now just find you.

5. Let the guy come to you, don't chase him. If a guy truly wants to get to know you and maybe be more than friends then he will eventually come to you. If you chase him and he just pushes you aside all you are doing is hurting yourself.

You will find that guy. Maybe its the guy who has sat in the back and watched you get hurt over and over again and just been a shoulder to cry on or someone you've never met, you will find him. And when you do don't let him go. He will be the guy that when you're hurting he hurts even more seeing you hurt, he wants nothing but for you to be happy, and he wants to give you the world. He might not be perfect but neither are you, so when that guy comes along don't let him go.

Keep your head up, someone will stitch your heart back together.