In the last 29
years, you have taken on a lot of roles. You’ve been a daughter, a
friend, a sister, a wife, and so much more. In a few weeks you will
take on a new role – probably the most important role you will
every take on: a mom. As your younger sister – the first baby you
ever really got the chance to take care of – I’m here to give you
one giant, important, helpful piece of information: You've got this. You are ready for parenthood.
Why am I so
confident in this? Well, I am the baby of the family. I have watched
you grow from a squeaky-voiced little kid to a loud speaking adult,
and you have watched me grow from a pale, fat baby, to a slightly less
fat, just as pale adult. Mom and dad didn’t raise me on their own, you helped a lot. You played with me, and you watched my TV
shows even though you didn’t want to. You entertained me, even
though you probably would have rather been doing something else. And
it not like we're only a year or two apart. You are six years
older than me. While I was playing with Barbie’s and watching
little kids' shows on TV, you were becoming a teenager. Yet, you still
made time to go along with my silly kid games even though you
probably didn’t want to. That’s motherhood: watching Sesame
Street when you’d rather be watching Game of Thrones (I know, they aren't on at the same time. Not the point I'm trying to make). Playing silly
kid games when you’d rather be relaxing by yourself. Eating
chicken nuggets for dinner every night, because that’s all your kid will eat, when
you’d rather be eating something else. You’ve been doing this
since you were six. Trust me, you’re ready. You’ve had plenty of
practice.
It is so strange to
me watching my sister, someone I still see as a kid, becoming a
mother. Every time you walk into the house your belly is bigger and
bigger, and it's odd to see the person who played with me and
my weirdly large amount of imaginary friends about to have a baby. We
have had our up's and down's, as all sister do, but as more
space has been made between us we have gotten closer. You got your own
room, and then you moved out of the house completely, and we do more
things together now than I think we have done our entire lives as
sisters. We travel together, watch Game of Thrones together, and go to
movies and concerts together. After your son is born, that all may
happen less, but I’m still coming over for fires, board games
and GOT on Sunday nights. We’ll still go to New York, and as he
gets older we can dress him up in costumes and go to Comic Con and
King Richard’s Fair. Any fun sister outing can now be a mommy,
son/nephew, and auntie outing, and it will still be fun.
I can’t wait to
meet your son, and do fun things with him, and become an aunt. I can
already see him looking just like you as a baby, and being super
smart and nerdy as he grows up. He’s going to love Batman just like
his dad, and play video games and love dogs. He’s going to love
his two dog brothers, and they might not be so sure of him at first,
but they’ll learn to love him, and they’ll always be there to
protect him. He’s going have more love coming at him than one
person can handle.
You’ve been an awesome big sister, and I can confidently say that you are ready to be a mom. You’re going to do great. Just remember, if you take him to Disney World, auntie is coming with you!