Dad, you have been there for me through thick and thin. You’ve seen me at my worst and at my best, but no matter what you have been by my side through it all. You’ve supported me through every decision (even if it was stupid) and cheered me on all the way. During basketball season I could always count on you to be there, sitting in stands, almost having a heart attack because you were just as nervous as I was. After the game, we’d talk about how much we dislike the other team, what I need to work on and what my team needs to work on. You helped me to better understand the game and to really love it. I always appreciated you screaming at the top of your lungs at the game. Mom would get embarrassed but I always appreciated the yelling. To me, it meant that you were there and that’s all that mattered. You’ve never missed a game during my basketball career which started since I could walk and I am grateful for that. Some of the best memories I have of us are the ones where we are either in the driveway or the gym shooting. You’ve taught me many skills that I still use today even if they aren’t on the basketball court. For example, discipline is one that you’ve instilled in me. I would have to do everything at 110 percent whether it was basketball or homework. All of my skills would have to be used to their fullest. You taught me that and I hope one day I can teach my kids that as well. Now, I know my basketball career didn’t end the way you wanted it to, but I’m truly grateful that you supported me through it all. It was hard on both of us, but it was for the best. After basketball was over, you were there to support me through my school. You encouraged me on my college decisions and I couldn’t be more grateful for that. All of your support and most importantly love has made me want to marry a man just like you. You have set a basis for what I want for in a husband. I pray every day that God brings me a man just like you and nothing less. You work hard to support us and I couldn’t be more grateful. I’m thankful that you have been there for me through it all. You’re truly the most important man in my life. Whether I show it or not, I appreciate everything you do for me. You’ve always been my #1 fan no matter and I love you for it. Thank you dad, I love you more than you ever know.
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Luckily, many colleges offer a number of ways to take part in campus and community life, without forcing you to dedicate all of your time to these organizations. Here are a few ideas!
1. Look into Housing and Dining.
Many first-year students start off college life in residence halls, and the Housing & Dining network throughout campus often provides multiple opportunities for students throughout the year. Many buildings have student community councils that work to create policies and events that make the dorms a more welcoming home for residents. Becoming a community assistant (or the students who work the desks at the front of many halls) is another easy way to have a consistent, well-paying job only minutes away from your room.
If you really enjoyed your housing experience, consider applying to be an RLA, or, if the school offers it, help to teach the first-year community. You'll get the chance to help support new and returning students over the year, and many of these positions also cover major costs like board and meal plans.
2. Pay attention to campus postings.
This advice is more obvious, but it still gets overlooked a fair amount. Even on a busy day, taking the time to stop around campus and look at the flyers advertising clubs and events can draw your attention to something that you never would've noticed otherwise. Students on many campuses also chalk the sidewalk to catch students' attention while they walk to class. Just make sure that the event you're interested in hasn't taken place already!
3. Find common interest groups.
One way to find friends and get involved is to focus on what you're passionate about. Have you always loved to sing? Do you enjoy playing video games? Is photography your favorite past-time? Have you always wanted to join Greek life? Whatever you love devoting your time to, chances are there are organizations around school who are focused on the same thing. Check the student life section of your university's website, or stop by a student organization fair at the beginning of the semester.
4. Join an intramural sports team.
If you're the athletic type, you've probably heard of intramural sports. Often offered through the Rec Center or the residence halls, most colleges often offer various indoor and outdoor sports to take part in throughout the year. Personal favorite? Mini golf.
5. Work on a cause that you care about.
Whether you're passionate about a political group, a social cause, or a religion, working with people who value beliefs similar to yours can be an easy way to meet people, get a better sense of your own identity, and promote causes that are important to you. Look into getting involved with College Democrats, Republicans, or whatever party that you belong to. Find a club that supports social issues, from women's rights to protecting the environment. If you're religious, look into student organizations based on your faith.
6. Join a club related to your major.
Even if you're not entirely sure what you want to do after school, finding a club or organization related to your field of studies can benefit you long after you leave the classroom. From career-related workshops to conferences to professional connections, these groups have a lot to boast.
7. Get an on-campus job.
If you have the time, need to work, or want to save a few extra dollars, finding a job on or near campus is a time-effective way to build up your bank account and gain work experience. Check in your residence hall (see #1), at local businesses and offices, or make an appointment with your school's career center.
8. Volunteer.
When you're caught up in school life, it can be hard to think about the bigger picture. Volunteering your time to people (or animals/an environment) in need puts things in perspective and allows you to feel good while making a positive difference. Check if your college town has a volunteer page, or look up local organizations requesting help.
Best of luck this year! Get out, and get busy.
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