A Letter To My Graduating Bigs | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

A Letter To My Graduating Bigs

I am lucky enough to be in an organization where I was blessed with not one, but two bigs. Both of whom inspire me. Both whom I love. And both of whom are graduating at the end of this semester.

267
A Letter To My Graduating Bigs
Unsplash

To my big sister and my big brother:

I am so proud of you and I am so proud that I can call you my bigs. You've (almost) made it! While one big chapter is closing out, you're about to take your first step in the next chapter of your life. You have worked so hard to get to this point and I am so excited to cheer you on across the finish line.

At the risk of sounding cliche, I really don't know what I would have done without you the past few years. You have given me an endless amount of guidance and support, and above everything, you've inspired me to be more like you. So, thank you.

Thank you for being my role model. You have both showed me all that it means to be a leader and an exceptional person and friend. I strongly believe that one person is a combination of all of the people that are in their life, and so I feel very lucky. I am lucky to have you to look up to and if I am anything like you at the end of the day, I am a better person.

Thank you for the adventures. We have gone to so many places and made countless memories together, which have just brought us closer. I haven't come to terms with the fact that I won't see you almost every day or have you just a phone call away. But looking back on all of the memories we've made warms my heart and makes me hopeful that we have plenty more memories to make in the future.

Thank you for helping me grow. You probably haven't realized how much of an impact you've made on my life, but you have both taught me so much about college, relationships, and just life, that I will forever be grateful for. You have taught me to be strong and passionate. You've taught me to be fierce and to always believe in myself. You have helped me realize what problems are real and worth it and which ones are better left forgetting. You have helped shaped me and I cannot thank you enough for your guidance and good influence.

Thank you for giving me your legacy to live out. While you both are graduating and will soon leave, I feel so grateful that I get to be the one to carry on the impact that you've made here at FSU. You have not only impacted my life as a role model and friend, but so many others as well.

You have taught me what it means to be a big, and how important that role can be in someone's life. You've taught me that being a big is not just about taking cute pictures (although we have pretty much killed the picture game), but it's about being there for someone on their very best days and their very worst days. You've been the one to talk me through anything and everything, just to help me feel better. You've spoiled me with your care and love, and you've taught me that to be a big is to be selfless. I feel intimidated knowing that I have to fill your shoes but I can only hope that I can have even half of the impact on my littles as you did with me.

Looking ahead to the next semester and then my final year at FSU, I hate that I will be doing it without you here. But, I know that there are so many FaceTimes and visits in our future. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't scared for you to leave but I am so excited for you, because I know so much greatness lies ahead of you.

Thank you for everything you have done for me but, most importantly, thank you for being my big.

MLITB,

Your Little Sister

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

189555
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

14505
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

457524
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

26452
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments