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To My Friends Back Home

Sincerely, your friend from miles away.

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To My Friends Back Home
Ashley Jane Conte

I'm sure me moving away for college wasn't what most of you had wanted, but you supported me anyway. I know the goodbyes were tough for you, and believe me they were tough for me, too. I'm going to miss our crazy random karaoke sessions in the car, the late night fries and pies, heart-to-heart talks, our parties, and so much more. There are some things I want you guys to realize:

1. I'm never going to replace you.

You guys are the pictures that take up my wall and shelf space at college. Those photos are filled with our crazy fun times. No matter how many friends I make up here, I'm coming home to you and when I do it'll be like nothing has changed. I'll tell them about you guys and how much you all mean to me. Believe me, I've already told my roommate about some of you when I brought out the pictures.

2. I'll Always Be Here.

I realize that I am many miles away from you, but that doesn't mean you can't talk to me about things. Yes, it may be different than me being able to pick you up and take you out for a drive and I will miss those car conversations, but I'm still here. There will be many ways to reach me whether it's a phone call, Skype, FaceTime, etc.

Now me being me, it's only fitting to leave you guys with some advice. Take care of yourself. It is OK to worry about others and care for them but make sure you take time to do some self-care. Whether that means letting go of toxic people, doing something you've never done before, or simply sipping coffee while reading, do it. Don't be too hard on yourself. I believe in you and you're growing up and making mistakes. You'll be okay. And the last thing you guys truly need to know is that I love you all so much.

Sincerely,

Your Friend From Miles Away

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