To My Big On Graduation | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

To My Big On Graduation

Time flies when you're desperately denying the end of the semester.

18
To My Big On Graduation
Molly Thomas

To my big,

For one of the few times in my life, I’m caught at a loss for words. How do I write in 500 words or less the impact you’ve had on me in our too-short time together? This is not to say that this is a goodbye or end of any sort; I know if ever the day comes when I give up my fun and settle down (LOL), I’ll see you in a sequined black bridesmaid/cocktail dress at my wedding, tossing back tequila shots before the reception. But instead of focusing on the future, I want to focus on who you are to me right now and everything you have instilled in me up to this point.

To be completely honest, my nerves were on end during my first few weeks in Theta. I didn’t know how to assimilate with all of these cool, stylish adult female-alphas. Then along came you, big. It was almost like dating. We texted about favorite artists, festivals, frats and, of course, food. Before big reveal, I was so uncertain if you had chosen me as your number one –– you were (are) way out of my league as a far as coolness. Ever since I lifted up that gift-wrapped box to see you awkwardly crouching underneath, I have been profoundly grateful that the universe threw our two reckless selves together.

From hospital trips to festivals and spring break, our memories are countless and unbelievable. Whether it’s showing up to my dorm Wednesday mornings with a forgiving acai bowl, letting me pass out in your bed at 3:00 p.m. after a grueling organic chem exam or encouraging me to eat a fifteenth taquito because Cinco de Mayo, you have always been there for me in my weakest moments. I will never forget the beautiful, life-altering moment when you showed me the bakery clearance section at Ralph’s. That is something that will stay with me for a lifetime.

You were not only the big sister I never had, but also the strong female mentor so vital to my undergrad experience. You showed me the ropes of college, modeling an effortless confidence and conviction around, which I slowly began to mold myself. Prior to having you as a friend, I didn’t truly understand the meaning of Theta sisterhood. Knowing that I was never alone truly showed me what our sisterhood represents: love. To have someone so selflessly loving me and looking out for me with the ferocity of a mama bear was profound.

And then I got the chance to demonstrate everything you taught me about being the best big when I got my own little. I can say without hesitation that I will never measure up to the standard you set, because it is record height. I get so immensely proud every time I get to tell people “Yeah, that’s my big!”

Party bus?

Yeah, that’s my big.

Thetapalooza?

Yup, my big.

The girl in the pancake eating contest?

You guessed it.

I could go on much longer about the impact you’ve had on my life, but the extent of the effect is immeasurable. I’d politely ask you to be a fifth-year senior, but I know your trajectory is cosmic and your success is emanate. While I’m not sure what I’ll do for my next two years of undergrad, you can expect incessant calls and texts from me asking to hear about your cool new adulthood until I catch up. But until then, I want to reiterate advice we discussed our first night out together: you miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take, big. Go hard.

Love,

Your little sis

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

The 5 Painfully True Stages Of Camping Out At The Library

For those long nights that turn into mornings when the struggle is real.

110
woman reading a book while sitting on black leather 3-seat couch
Photo by Seven Shooter on Unsplash

And so it begins.

1. Walk in motivated and ready to rock

Camping out at the library is not for the faint of heart. You need to go in as a warrior. You usually have brought supplies (laptop, chargers, and textbooks) and sustenance (water, snacks, and blanket/sweatpants) since the battle will be for an undetermined length of time. Perhaps it is one assignment or perhaps it's four. You are motivated and prepared; you don’t doubt the assignment(s) will take time, but you know it couldn’t be that long.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

The 14 Stages Of The Last Week Of Class

You need sleep, but also have 13 things due in the span of 4 days.

213
black marker on notebook

December... it's full of finals, due dates, Mariah Carey, and the holidays. It's the worst time of the year, but the best because after finals, you get to not think about classes for a month and catch up on all the sleep you lost throughout the semester. But what's worse than finals week is the last week of classes, when all the due dates you've put off can no longer be put off anymore.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

28 Daily Thoughts of College Students

"I want to thank Google, Wikipedia, and whoever else invented copy and paste. Thank you."

787
group of people sitting on bench near trees duting daytime

I know every college student has daily thoughts throughout their day. Whether you're walking on campus or attending class, we always have thoughts running a mile a minute through our heads. We may be wondering why we even showed up to class because we'd rather be sleeping, or when the professor announces that we have a test and you have an immediate panic attack.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Great Christmas Movie Debate

"A Christmas Story" is the star on top of the tree.

2089
The Great Christmas Movie Debate
Mental Floss

One staple of the Christmas season is sitting around the television watching a Christmas movie with family and friends. But of the seemingly hundreds of movies, which one is the star on the tree? Some share stories of Santa to children ("Santa Claus Is Coming to Town"), others want to spread the Christmas joy to adults ("It's a Wonderful Life"), and a select few are made to get laughs ("Elf"). All good movies, but merely ornaments on the Christmas tree of the best movies. What tops the tree is a movie that bridges the gap between these three movies, and makes it a great watch for anyone who chooses to watch it. Enter the timeless Christmas classic, "A Christmas Story." Created in 1983, this movie holds the tradition of capturing both young and old eyes for 24 straight hours on its Christmas Day marathon. It gets the most coverage out of all holiday movies, but the sheer amount of times it's on television does not make it the greatest. Why is it,
then? A Christmas Story does not try to tell the tale of a Christmas miracle or use Christmas magic to move the story. What it does do though is tell the real story of Christmas. It is relatable and brings out the unmatched excitement of children on Christmas in everyone who watches. Every one becomes a child again when they watch "A Christmas Story."

Keep Reading...Show less
student thinking about finals in library
StableDiffusion

As this semester wraps up, students can’t help but be stressed about finals. After all, our GPAs depends on these grades! What student isn’t worrying about their finals right now? It’s “goodbye social life, hello library” time from now until the end of finals week.

1. Finals are weeks away, I’m sure I’ll be ready for them when they come.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments