Dear Not-So-Little Brother,

A lot has changed in a year. You're now taller than me (although let's be honest, we all knew that was going to happen), you're more independent, and overall just not the little baby brother I was always used to. I spent a year away at college and come back to basically a full grown man (just kidding you still have a long way to go, buddy). But really, I see you growing up more and more each day and am so excited to keep seeing the man you will continue to grow into.

But along the way of life, it may be hard to stay true to who you are. Don't ever change who you are just because some people don't approve. Remember what mom always told us, "In a room full of 10 people, 5 may not like you but there are always the 5 who do!" Focus on those who love you and stay true to yourself. And don't lose that childlike sense that you have always had. It's one of my favorite things about you.

When you get a girlfriend (not too soon though, please), treat her right. There are so many stories about boyfriends treating their girlfriends terribly, and I would never want to hear this story about you. Love her and show her what it means to be truly loved just like I know you can.

Whatever happens and however successful you become (because I know you're going to be wildly successful), don't forget about your family. We love you so much and want to share in your joy and success.

And from your older sister, I will always be here for you. If you need to call me at 3 am, I'll be here. You will always have me, and I will always be proud of you and whatever major and career you choose. I love you and don't you ever forget it. And stop growing up so fast, please.

Love,

You Big Sister