Dear recent high school graduates,
Congratulations! You survived four years of living in your high school bubble, from attending classes with the same people from the year before to hanging out with the same group of friends every weekend. But now it’s almost time to venture out of that bubble and start getting ready to what is known as “the best years of your life.”
It’s almost August and college is right around the corner. But before you dive into your new world, here are some things to take into consideration before leaving behind the world you grew up in.
1. Make time
Be sure to make some quality time to hang out with family and friends before you leave home. Believe it or not, it will also be hard for them to be far away from you and adjust to not seeing your face every single day.
2. Live in the moment
I get it, it’s easier said than done but don’t stress too much about the future that you forget to enjoy the last few days you have at home surrounded by loved ones. Make sure you’re really enjoying and experiencing the last few memories you’ll have for a while with family and friends.
3. It’s okay to feel sad, nervous, anxious, etc.
Moving away from home is a scary thought especially if you’re an upcoming freshman in college who’s lived with and depended on your parents your whole life. Just because you’re moved out doesn’t mean that you can’t still ask your parents for help and advice. Remember, they’re always just a phone call away.
4. Be prepared
Make sure to look out for any deals relating dorm things because they will add up and you’ll be glad you kept that coupon from Bed, Bath & Beyond in the long run. Also, take the time to message your future roommate (if you’re not already rooming with your BFF), set a time and place to meet up and get to know each other before move-in day to make it less awkward.
5. Get a planner
Trust me on this. You need to get one. It will save your life in college. Make sure to immediately write down any and all of the important dates regarding classes, work and social activities so you’re not missing deadlines or overbooking yourself.
Yours truly,
A college grad that wished she had done these things
