Tinder, you really freak me out.
No, I have never used Tinder before, or any of those swipe right or left sort of apps, but honestly I will never understand the point of it. All I ever see people doing nowadays are swiping some pics based on looks. Don’t think I’m judging, I have friends who are on Tinder, but I ask them “why?” all the time. They tell me “Oh it’s for fun.” What’s for fun? It seems so unnecessary.
I feel like people are on it to secretly meet someone, but joke about it in the public eye. In this generation I belong to, people are so afraid of “love” or “liking” someone. These are the people I see on dating apps. If you’re so afraid of love, why the heck are you on a creepy site where the person you’re talking to might be a total perv? Honestly, if you’re looking for a relationship, then get off your phone, and start meeting people face to face. If you think someone’s good looking on the street, well shit, just tell them. That compliment will most likely mean more to the person than a “I want nudes of you” on Tinder ever will.
If I see you in public with friends, at lunch, at a party or anywhere where there are people surrounding you and you are on Tinder, I will call you out, and you will be embarrassed. Boys, if you think it’s a turn on when girls see you on Tinder, think again. Boy, if you’re cute and on Tinder, and a girl catches you, I hope that girls swipes you left out of her life. Same goes to you ladies. Don’t be fooled by these guys on Tinder telling you that they’re looking for long, lasting, love, when all they could be doing is hoeing around in another town next to you with another girl, telling her the same stuff he told you.
Wow Tinder, you really do freak me out. Ladies and gents, can we go back to a time where it was acceptable to compliment someone face to face without thinking the other person is weird? Is chivalry really dead? That’s what it seems like because all we have left now are false dating apps that people use “for fun”. If you really want to meet someone, friends or more than friends, just use Bumble! I heard it’s great.
KIDDING. TOTALLY KIDDING. Seriously though, chat it up with them in person, it will be a hell of a lot more meaningful than a swipe right based on looks ever will be. Guys,keep asking girls out on dates. And ladies, keep approaching guys. Don’t let technology or apps determine your fate with someone.
