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Tinder Do's and Don'ts

The unspoken rules.

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Tinder Do's and Don'ts
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In this age of social media it was inevitable that someone, somewhere was going to design an app that allowed it's users to causally make new friends. This app, as people already know, is Tinder.

All of the users have a different reason for using the app. Whether it be you just got out of a relationship, or just want to meet new and interesting people in your area. You can swipe left if you aren't interested in that person, or swipe right if you are interest. It will show you anyone that has a profile within a 100 miles radius or less of you. If you have Tinder premium, you can match with people from all across the world.

There are a couple of unspoken rules of Tinder. I like to call them the Do's and Don'ts of the Tinder world and people need to start understanding them.

The Do's:

1. Send a gif. Send them a funny gif to break the ice. It can be something funny to get a laugh or something cute to get a comment, either one will start a conversation for sure.

2. Send a pickup line. If a funny gif doesn't get them talking, try a pickup line. Whether it's cheesy or unique it's always worth a shot. I, personally, love seeing what kind of pickup lines guys will use.

3. Ask them why they're using Tinder. Many users will use this app for different reason. Once you get past all gifs and pickup lines, you'll want to start off by asking why they're using it. If they want what you want, then you can continue. If they don't then don't drag them along. Leave them alone and move on.

4. Start with small talk. If you find someone interested in the same thing you are. Don't go right into heavy topics. Unless they specifically start it themselves, take things slow. Get to know them before jumping into the deep end.

Now onto the Don'ts:

1. Never assume. Many people use Tinder for serious reasons, not just a causal hook up. So don't assume that every match you get will want that. It's a big turn-off.

2. Ask for Snapchat. Many people know what snapchat can be used for. If they want you to have their snapchat, they'll give it to you. If you do happen to get it, don't get too crazy with right off the bat. Just like before, take it slow.

3. Don't be cocky. Present yourself in a well-mannered way. Nobody likes someone that is totally all about themselves and nothing else. While having confidence is definitely a good thing, being cocky is a huge turn-off for most people. Just be yourself and if they're decent, then they'll accept you for that.

4. If they don't respond after the first or second message. Don't continue to send 10-20 messages. If they didn't respond the first or second time, chances are they're ignoring you and aren't going to reply. They aren't worth the time and effort.

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