How To Go Through A Difficult Time | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Lifestyle

How To Go Through A Difficult Time

The constants that will keep you together

33
How To Go Through A Difficult Time
Nicole Williams

If you have been reading my blog Una or my blog in Spanish Una Leona, you know I have been going through a difficult time. I was placed in such uncomfortable situations that I began to question if God really had my back. I questioned this only to realize He really does. I think the most important thing I could tell you is to never ever make decisions out of your emotions. Make decisions out of what the Holy Spirit is saying.

So how do you get through a rough time? No matter what it is, the things I wrote below are to be a constant in your life. They will get you through the roughest trials you could ever face.

1) Worship

You close your eyes. You look up to heaven. You begin to worship the wonder and majesty of Almighty God. Your heart and mind realize how wonderful, powerful and amazing He is. Truly nothing could ever compare to Him. You see His greatness and everything else seems so minuscule before Him.

So, why do you worship? You worship because your mind and heart need to come into alignment with the greatness of God. You worship because your problems and dilemmas are small before Him. Your heart, mind and spirit shift in the midst of worship. You need to worship.

2) Pray at all times

The more you pray, the less time you have to overthink. When our minds and emotions are shaken, we tend to think a million things at a time. It is better to talk to God and take the counsel of God rather than your own counsel. Many times, we can get into panic mode or become incredibly sad through our own thoughts and emotions. We allow the enemy to lie to us in the weakest areas of our lives. So, we need to pray. We need to seek the face and counsel of God. We need to trust Him even when it doesn't make sense.

For me, it seems like God is always taking me through the most uncomfortable situations. It's easier to shut Him out and not talk to Him. The truth is, I don't understand what He is doing, but I don't have to understand. I need to have faith and trust Him. I need to continue talking to Him and believing that whatever He is doing, He is doing it for my own good.

3) Journal

When you write, you can put all of your feelings and thoughts on paper as opposed to replaying them in your head. Journaling and praying frees you from overthinking and overanalyzing. It is also good to be able to read your own thoughts. Sometimes you don't realize how absurd your thoughts are until you put them on paper.

Journaling is a big release for me. It helps me put my rawest thoughts and emotions on paper. It also allows me to be honest with myself and with God. Sometimes we need to process our thoughts and emotions through the pen and paper to get to the root of things. God has used and continues to use writing to deliver us from many strongholds. If you are not sure about this, read the Psalms David wrote.

4) Listen

"Be still and know that I am God" (Psalm 46:10).

Something amazing happens in the stillness when we shut out our voices and just listen to God. Listening to Him is the best thing we can do in any situation. He always knows what to say and how to say it. He calms us down. He gives us hope. He affirms us. It is a blessing to listen God Almighty. He tells us what we need to hear when we need to hear it. He is patient. He is loving. He is the Best Counselor.

If you want to listen to someone, listen to God. His wisdom surpasses our own, so even when He makes the smallest statement, He speaks volumes. God is always telling us something. He is always trying to get our attention. He wants to speak to us about who He is. He wants to show us who we are in Him and who we are together in the midst of our circumstances. He knows it all. He knew what we were going to go through before we did, and He knows what happens next. Listen to God. He knows what He is doing.

So, this is how you get through a difficult time victoriously. The truth is, we always need to live lives of worship, prayer, journaling and listening. You should also know that these disciplines take different forms. Worship and prayer entail reading the Word as well. I didn't want to make a category for it because we tend to think of reading the Word as we read a book. But when we read the Word, we're worshiping, we're praying and we are listening. We are also filling our minds with God's thoughts instead of our own.

No matter what you are going through, continue to worship, pray at all times, journal and listen. Seek God's counsel and fill yourself with His Word, thoughts and presence. You will walk through and walk out victoriously.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

192264
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

16081
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

458805
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

27139
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments