If you have realized that you have become a victim of fear and you want to change something, literally anything, but you are waiting on a sign... this is it. This is the sign to tell you to take your life back, to grab the wheel and steer yourself in whatever direction you want. This could be any decisions big or small.
Want to cut your hair? Do it. Want to buy clothes? Do it. Want to change your major? Do it. Want to end a relationship or friendship? Do it.
Life is way way too short and way too precious to waste your days being anything less than happy or asking yourself a million 'what-ifs?' Forget the what-ifs and just do it. You can not plan for every single reaction of a decision you make and you will know what to do when it comes. If you have been contemplating making a decision for a while but you keep coming up with excuses, that is the fear and you must ignore and overcome it. If this is a decision you can not stop thinking about this is a sign that your heart wants it and you just have to build up the courage to do it.
You truly never know what will happen next— a decision you make could be the best decision of your life and bring you the happiness that you ever thought you needed but you will never know unless you just do it. I'm telling you to look fear in the eyes and do what scares you most. You deserve a life of joy instead of misery. Take the chance and change your life, it is so worth it.
