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This Is For The Girls Who...

Never settle for less than you deserve.

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This Is For The Girls Who...
Life Coach Tiffany Hammond

This goes out to all the girls who have had their heart broken one time too many. The ones who believe they're not worth it. The ones who settle for less than they deserve.

This is for the girls who are awake at two in the morning thinking of someone who doesn't think twice about them. This is for the girls who put their all into someone and get little to nothing in return. This is for the girls who put up with getting treated like trash, just for the cute little moments that happen every now and then.

This is for the girls who have wasted way too many tears on a guy who doesn't deserve them. This is for the girls who can't face getting out of bed because they can't handle the pain. This is for the girls who try so hard for someone who doesn't notice them one bit. This is for the girls who stay when it's time to walk away.

Why do we put up with less than we deserve? Why do we put ourselves through all this? Why do we care so much? Why don't we ever realize that we deserve more? When will the day come that we realize that all of this heartbreak isn't worth our time?

You deserve so much more than what you're going through or what you have been through. You shouldn't be wasting your time on someone that doesn't give you all that you deserve. Sulking and wallowing in your pain and pity won't make anything better. You have to draw the happiness from within yourself, and honestly, a guy should never be your source of happiness.

Remember, actions speak so much louder than words ever will. If you're not getting the effort and dedication you deserve, he's not in it fully and you shouldn't be wasting your time. It's okay to stand up and speak your mind, but don't fight with no fight in return. There's a point when it's just not worth it anymore; when it's draining you, destroying you, and consuming you.

Don't physically, emotionally, and mentally harm yourself over someone. Someone who cares about you should never bring you that kind of pain. You should be treated like a princess (or a queen). You shouldn't be second guessing everything. You should be getting just as much as you put in. You should be smiling, not crying. You shouldn't have to be worrying about what's going on and if you're on his mind.

Stand up. Wipe your tears. Lift your head up. Say a little prayer. Put on some Justin Bieber and dance around your room. Watch a good movie with your girls. Go get a big ice cream sundae. Realize that you're worth so much more. Never let someone who doesn't give you all that you deserve ruin your day.

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