13 Reasons Why was released on Netflix earlier this month and has been met with well-deserved love. The adaptation of books to film usually never quite conveys the full story line, often leaving out the parts that make you relate the most since you don’t get the details or inner workings of a character’s mind. 13 Reasons Why is different. Not only do we still get the details, we get an emotional portrayal of a topic so often glossed over in Hollywood. This show was approached with honesty; while sometimes being difficult to watch, the show has an important and powerful message. Even with the important messages conveyed, I found myself getting frustrated while watching- not just at all of the horrible things that happen, but with Hannah Baker herself. As important as it is to be kind, it is also important to remember that although you cannot control what happens to you, you can control how you react.

With all the buzz already going on about the show, I’m sure you don’t need a list of reasons to watch it. Instead, I’ll share a list of the 13 lessons this show conveys.

1. You should be kind to everyone- regardless of a TV show.
2. Your actions matter. Every single one of them. You never know how much of an impact your words can have on somebody.
3. Don’t be afraid to love.
4. Never minimize someone’s problems just because they don’t seem important to you.
5. Listen.
6. People don’t always get what they deserve. There are so many people that deserve a better hand than they’ve been dealt in life. Jeff Atkins is proof of that.
7. It’s okay if you’re not okay.
8. Reach out to people. You never know the difference you can make just by caring.
9. You can’t fix everything.
10. Your life and presence in this world have a greater impact than you realize.
11. Own up to your mistakes.
12. Just because something is difficult to talk about does not mean that you should not talk about it.
13. We do not have to be a victim of circumstance. We are responsible for our own mental health. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.