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Why Third-Wheeling Isn't A Bad Thing

As the person who is always without a date, I end up as the third-wheel a lot, and I have began to enjoy it.

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Why Third-Wheeling Isn't A Bad Thing
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At some point in my life, I became the last friend to get a significant other. Many times when I wanted to hang out with friends I ended up being the "third-wheel" with the couple. At first, I found this awkward as they ogled at each other, held hands, and sometimes kissed for longer than what was necessary. I always wanted to see my friends, so I would put up with their significant other and their gross couple habits, but eventually I figured out that third-wheeling was wasn't that big of a deal.

1. You have a new bathroom buddy.

So when someone would get a new girlfriend, I was able to use the buddy system to use the bathroom in places where I may not be totally comfortable. In addition, I had another female to tell me I had lipstick on my teeth or my dress was tucked into my underwear. When someone got a boyfriend, I had another male to bounce ideas off of and get the other gender's perspective.

2. You make new friends.

A new significant other means there is at least one new person to be friends with, but if you're lucky, friends of friends become your own friends, and your social circle expands.

3. You can tag-team to make the other person happy.

We all get down sometimes. The best part of being third-wheel is having another person to bounce ideas off of to see what will make your best friend the happiest. This can range from birthday presents to surprise dates to even okay-ing the engagement ring.

4. You understand both sides.

Couples argue, and that is a fact. The most recent third-wheel roll I took was being a mediator between sides. Because I was friends with both people, I was able to see what each side was saying and offer helpful hints and just be there for both people.

5. Support.

The biggest reason I am fine with being a third-wheel is because I want to support my friends in their relationships. I want to be able to reassure them that the person that they're with is good for them. I want to be around to see them make memories and enjoy themselves.

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