There are many things you learn how to do before you become an "adult" at 18. Such as walking, talking, reading, and all of the stuff in between. But there are many things that I have learned that someone can't necessarily teach you how to do. As I approach my 19th birthday soon, here are some of the things that I have learned along the way.
1. Never Give Up
Always reach for the stars. Dream big, and chase after those dreams. You can do it with hard work and determination, and never giving up on something that you love and are passionate about.
2. Always be yourself
You are who you are, embrace it!
3. Always say "I love you"
In person, on the phone, or whenever, always say "I love you" to the people you love. You never know when it'll be the last time you say it.
4. Always tell the truth
Telling the truth can go a long ways. Don't lie, tell the truth — it'll be better in the long run
5. Always use your manners
"Please" and "thank you" go a long ways nowadays. I don't know how people weren't raised to use their manners.
6. Always be kind
Kindness is needed a lot nowadays. Many people don't know how to be a decent human. Spread the world with kindness and always remember to be a kind human.
7. Travel often
Traveling makes the heart happy. Whether it's staying in the US or going out of the country, I know that I will have fun and have memories of a lifetime.
8. Love hard
9. Have fun
You have to have fun every once and awhile, so go to that party with your friends. Before you know it, you won't have time to have fun all the time.
10. Never say "goodbye"
It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later.
11. Stand up for what you believe in
Everyone is passionate about something. Let your voice be heard and stand up for what you believe in. Your opinion matters.
12. Make time for family
Family is everything. Friends come and go, but family is here to stay. There is only limited time with your family, so make the most of it.
13. Always give 100%
Don't half ass things. It's your time and money. If you give your 100%, you will get rewarded.
14. Save money
Saving money is hard for people, but when you do, it can work in your benefit, and you can actually buy that new car or go on that trip that you have always been wanting to go on.
15. But also treat yourself
Yes, treating yourself is okay. Everyone does it. Whether it's buying a new shirt or a new car.
16. Always respect others
Respect is earned, not given. Until someone abuses your respect towards them, always respect others.
17. Never change for anyone
You are who you are, and if someone can't accept that, then they shouldn't be in your life.
18. Take risks
Whether it's big or small, always take that risk instead of wondering "what if" all your life.
