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5 Things I Want To Thank My New Boyfriend For, Every Day

We were meant to find each other when we needed each other most.

Jenna Tameling

Jul 31, 2019

UNC Charlotte

5 Things I Want To Thank My New Boyfriend For, Every Day

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My new boyfriend is one of the sweetest and most understanding people I know. We have so much in common that some days it's hard to believe that we just met a few weeks ago. I didn't think I would ever find a guy who could relate to my past while also give me a future to be excited about, but I am so grateful I did. Here are 5 things I want to thank him for, every day:

Thank you for always being there when I’m sad.

You always know how to cheer me up when I’m crying and lift my spirits when I’m second guessing myself.

Thank you for supporting me in school and life.

You make me feel like I can do anything with my life. You don’t limit me and you challenge me to become the woman I was always meant to be. College is challenging enough and you make me feel like even in the hardest year of my life, I can still knock it out of the park.

Thank you for letting me see every side of you.

Your ability to show your emotions and open up to me makes me feel like no matter what, we are able to get through any hard time together. You being vulnerable with me shows me that I am also able to open up to you myself.

Thank you for understanding that long distance doesn’t have to be a bad thing.

I know my being in school isn't easy for either of us. I appreciate you understanding that this is only a temporary situation that will bring us together in the end. Long-distance isn't always easy for the mind or body, but every time we do get to see each other, it'll bring us closer together

Thank you for being you.

Meeting you was no coincidence. I fell in love with a guy that is open-minded, sensitive, has a great sense of humor, and knows that in the end, everything works out the way it's supposed to.

I've never felt this close to a man before. You are everything I'd wished for in a boyfriend and I want you to know that no matter what, we are both here for each other, through thick and thin.

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Thank you for always being there when I’m sad.

Thank you for supporting me in school and life.

Thank you for letting me see every side of you.

Thank you for understanding that long distance doesn’t have to be a bad thing.

Thank you for being you.

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I'm fine. This is my natural face.

1. Strangers have told you "Smile!" on regular occasions

2. The first thing people say to you is "Are you okay?"

3. Dates have texted you asking if they bored you

4. Or, they tell you they don't want to go out again because you didn't seem interested

5. People question your level of comfort in any given situation

6. Friends have said, "When I first met you, I thought you didn't like me." and were totally serious about it

7. Jokes don't land well because people can't tell if you're serious or not

8. You've been told customer service isn't for you because you never smile

9. In fact, in your yearly review, your manager always writes to smile more under "room for improvement"

10. You hate when people have their cameras out taking candids

11. Even when you smile for a photograph it looks like either A) you're trying too hard or B) you're the Mona Lisa

12. Things can even get a little awkward when you smile

13. You regularly are told "I'm never sure how you feel about things"

14. You've scared strangers on the train/bus/sidewalk with your death glares-- even though they're unintentional and you're not really looking at them

15. Christmas and birthdays are hard because you have to figure out how to look like you're pleased with all your gifts even when you are

16. People frequently tell you you're intimidating

17. Friends stop inviting you to things because they think you don't like going

18. Your parents have RBF (it's definitely genetic. Thanks, Mom).

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2. Start a snowball fight

3. Build a fort

4. Binge-watch Netflix

4. Look out the window

5. Grab coffee with a friend

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8. Read a book

9. Bake cookies

10. Drink hot cocoa

11. Go ice skating

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"I don't want to do things. I want to not do things."

1. When you look at the syllabus and realize there are only three weeks of the semester left; even though the first day was LITERALLY yesterday.

2. You look at your grades and realize they probably aren't as high as they should be, which is a terrifying realization.

3. When you think to yourself at night, "tomorrow, I will wake up early and go to the library ALL day, and, hell, maybe after I'll go to the gym for a little bit, just to push myself that extra mile."

4. Tomorrow actually comes. The inevitable and overpowering sense of procrastination is too strong to overcome.

5. But you DO end up going to the library. Not all day though, but still, a while. But no, you do not go to the gym. Still, you made an effort, so you decide to treat yo' self.

6. When you realize you need to schedule a meeting with your adviser because you need to sign up for classes next semester. But you also realize that since you waited until the last minute, you're going to get stuck with all of the crappy classes.

7. When you low-key try to slip into conversation with your professors that you need extra credit because you're that desperate.

8. When it's already the third time you've seen your adviser in two days because you have no damn clue what you're doing and need all the help you can get.

9. When you apply for a job associated with your major even though you have no experience, but you just want to dive headfirst into the deep end of adulthood and get it over with.

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