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Things To Realize

“By changing your mind, you change everything.”

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Things To Realize

We are all human and as a result, we all make mistakes. We apologize far too many times for every little thing or we over-analyze what we do. We try so hard to make others happy. There comes a time, though, when we have to take a breath and realize some very important things.

You can’t make everyone happy.

Yes, letting people down sucks, but it happens. You need to make yourself happy. If you upset with someone, sometimes you just need to brush it off. If they’re your friend, they’ll forgive you.

You’re going to screw up.

Again, this happens. You’re human. You’re going to make mistakes. Always try to remember to think before you act. You never intend to mess up, but taking the time to consider all the circumstances of your situation before acting will help you make the best decision possible. Never stop taking chances.

It’s OK to take time for yourself.

There may be times when you’re going to want to be by yourself and not associate with others. That’s OK. Take care of yourself first. If people think you’re avoiding them, assure them you aren’t and explain to them that you just need some time to yourself. When you’re ready to talk, you will.

Never apologize for who you are.

You are who you are. You should never compare yourself to someone else or feel like you are not enough. You are unique, and there can never be another you. Always remember how special you really are. It's not your fault if others can't see your greatness.

Everything is going to be OK.

You may be feeling down for quite some time, but please realize that things will be OK in the end. Some wounds take longer to heal than others. You can do this, though. Always look for a positive side. Love who you are and accept what you are not. You have the ability to make a change. You’ll be OK.

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