As much as we might hate to admit it, sometimes our parents really do know best. My parents have taught me enough life lessons to fill countless pages of countless books. However, these are the few in particular that stand out among the rest.
1. It’s okay to act silly.
My family and I always have fun together. Whether it’s dance parties in the kitchen, sing-alongs in the car, or goofy banter, there’s never a dull moment with my family. It taught me to never take life too seriously.
2. Sometimes the best things aren’t new.
Growing up in a generation obsessed with everything bright, shiny, and new, my parents always kept it real with the classics. My favorite books, movies, and songs are all considered “oldies” and I’m totally okay with that.
3. What good music sounds like.
My taste in music ranges from 50’s doo wop, to 60’s psychedelic rock, to 70’s funk, to 80’s dance pop, and everything in between. I’d like to label myself as a music connoisseur and I usually kill it when it comes to any kind of music trivia or identification games. I also make THE BEST (self-declared) Spotify playlists.
4. How to lick an ice cream cone.
Basically so my siblings and I wouldn’t look like this. (By the way: This is my friend Rachel who is nearly 20 and still a mess).
5. How to perfectly roast a marshmallow
I can give a marshmallow a golden tan that beach goers only dream about.
6. How to correctly unplug something.
My dad is an electrician, so we got these lectures a lot growing up. Now I like to educate my friends on how not to fry themselves, or blow a fuse.
7. Reading is fun.
As a kid, trips to the library were my favorite. My mom always has a book on hand. Reading has influenced the way I learn, and what career path I want to take. Not to mention reading is fun! You can interpret material in books your own way and become totally absorbed in a story. Now when I take trips to library, I leave with around four or five books to read at a time.
8. Appreciate what you have.
I didn't grow up in a family with a lot of money; and that was totally okay. I had the best childhood. My parents always made sure we had the most fun together, regardless of how extravagant it was. And even if I did wish I had something better, I was always reminded that someone somewhere has even less than I, and that really put things in perspective.
9. Everything will work out how it is supposed to.
I am someone who stresses out really easily and my parents always know how to talk me down. Whether it’s school, friends, money, boys, or anything bothering me, I’m always put at ease knowing that things will work out the way they are meant to.
10. Never settle.
This one is important. "Settling" means accepting less than you want or deserve, because you don't think you can get it. Caring what other people think is hard, and it’s even harder when you hold yourself back because of simply not feeling good enough. I am always reminded that I deserve the best, regardless if it’s in terms of relationships, career paths, or anything else. When I feel less than worthy I always remember that settling will only hurt me in the end, and it keeps me determined to strive for the things I truly want and deserve.
11. Your parents aren’t your best friends.
I’m not saying you can’t be close with your parents and have fun with them, but it’s important to remember that they aren’t your peers. They’re so much more than that. They will give you some great words of wisdom, will always defend you, will tell you when you’re wrong, and will always deserve your respect. These people gave you life; always be humble about that.
12. Capisce
Any kids from Italian families will know this phrase. Capisce (pronounced cah-PEESH) means "got it" or "understand." It is usually used when you’re being scolded, however, this phrase stuck with me into young adulthood and reminded me to always take the time to understand.
13. What true love is.
My parents started dating in high school and have been together ever since; and they still love each other the same. They sing together in the car, act goofy, and are really best friends in love. My mom even says she still gets butterflies every time my dad comes home from work. In a generation where romance and commitment are lost concepts, my parents give me hope that true love is still out there somewhere.
14. Family is first (and forever).
Growing up in a family that is extremely close is one of the biggest blessings I could’ve asked for. My parents always remind my siblings and me that family is number one and will always have your back.
