5 Things I Learned From Long Distance | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

5 Things I Learned From Long Distance

Because there's a silver-lining to everything.

10
5 Things I Learned From Long Distance
Pexels

I'm sure we'd all prefer to have our SOs in the same city as us (let alone the same country). It's easier to feel comforted and loved when they're right next to you, can pull you in and hold you close. Sadly, that's not always the case. But that's not necessarily something to be sad about. While distance has the capability to tear couples apart, it has the capability to bring them a lot closer. If you're strong enough, you'll be able to draw some benefits from a long-distance relationship.

1. Kisses become treasured.

You never want to let them go. You learn to be thankful for every goodnight kiss and good morning peck because you know what it's like to miss them when they aren't there. They're one of the easiest things to take for granted in a relationship, especially when you get so used to having them around. But once your SO is back in your life, you'll take every kiss you can get.

2. You learn how to communicate better.

You've got no choice. You can't shut the other person out and expect them to know what's going on—especially when they're so far away. They don't have a crystal ball they can look through to make sure you're okay. You've got to communicate problems and fears. Letting them go unresolved is willingly taking a match to your relationship, which can be detrimental when your SO is in a different state or time zone.

3. You figure out exactly how they fit into your life.

What about them do you really love? You'll find yourself missing their little quirks (like the way they stick their tongue out when they concentrate) and their bodily functions (gross, I know). You'll realize that not only do you love the super-amazing parts about them, but you love everything about them. And that's pretty cool.

4. The trust between you two grows.

Distance is a test—one that can be filled with temptation. But for a strong couple, it's a chance to trust each other even more (as if that were even possible). You learn for sure that they'll come back to you. They mean it when they tell you they'd never hurt you and never leave you. And every minute you're apart is a chance to prove that.

5. It's a chance to grow together.

There are two paths in a relationship: you change and grow together, or change and grow apart. Neither of you will be the same person forever—especially after spending time in different areas of the world. If you can acknowledge that and be aware of it, then distance provides you with the chance to make the most of it. Be supportive. Be understanding. Be kind. And you'll be brought closer than you ever were before.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
students
Sophia Palmerine

Dear High School Friend Group,

My sweet angels, where would I be without you guys. We all grew up together because we either met in middle school or high school and watched each other grow up and get "old." We got to go to prom together and then graduate together. Then watched each other as we continued our lives in college, joining sororities and meeting people who will impact our lives forever. It all has happened so fast.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

College In Gifs

Because we are all sad Jim Halpert

393
head on desk
Wise GEEK

Oh college, we can’t live with you, but we can’t live without you. It’s a love/hate relationship, really. College is an experience that no one can ever prepare you for, and maybe that’s a good thing. You never really expect any of the things that college encompasses until you are there. College is fun, but don’t have too much fun. C’s get degrees, but they don’t get you into graduate school.

Keep Reading...Show less
Blair Waldorf

The "Gossip Girl" series may be over, but Blair Waldorf's iconic character lives in our hearts forever. Blair was the queen of the Upper East Side, and a character you either loved or hated. She taught us everything we needed to know about life, love and of course, how to score a Chuck Bass. So the next time you feel a bit lost and are in need of guidance, look no further than to the Queen B herself.

As I spend my Sunday avoiding my homework and other adult responsibilities, I realized that I've watched this series over and over about a million times. Sadly, there isn't a Blair quote I don't know, so I came up with a list of a few favorites. You know you love her...xoxo

Keep Reading...Show less
class
Odyssey

College is an endless cycle of crappy, sleepless nights, tedious, boring lectures, and hours of never-ending piles of homework.

Keep Reading...Show less
two women enjoying confetti

Summer: a time (usually) free from school work and a time to relax with your friends and family. Maybe you go on a vacation or maybe you work all summer, but the time off really does help. When you're in college you become super close with so many people it's hard to think that you won't see many of them for three months. But, then you get that text saying, "Hey, clear your schedule next weekend, I'm coming up" and you begin to flip out. Here are the emotions you go through as your best friend makes her trip to your house.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments