Most students don't understand just what RA's do and how much work they put on behind the scenes, but its something every college student should realize. As a Resident Assistant, the responsibilities are not only for yourself, but they develop for your residents as well. As a resident, it is easy to avoid, ignore, and forget that your RA is more than just a "hall mom", but a great resource. Here are six things to remember about your friendly, neighborhood RA in college:
1. We are students too.
It gets hectic juggling a job and being a full time student. Sometimes we will have a test on a Monday, and work until 12 on Sunday. It's not a rare thing to have a resident locked out or being asked to plunge a toilet. This job is time consuming and takes some dedication, but the outcome is beautiful. Being an RA creates so many friendship opportunities and connections for the resident and the RA.
2. We are on your side, not out to get you.
Okay, so yes. Sometimes we have to get onto residents about doing this and that, but that is not the goal. We don't roll around the dorms searching for rule breakers or the music blare-ers. We want to make the dorms a safe environment but a fun place too. We want a sense of community and to create a second "home" in your dorm.
3. We (almost) always have food.
It's the mother/dad in us, we wanna make sure our babies are taken care of. Get to know your RA and they become not only a support system but a kitchen too.
4. We are here to help.
There are many reasons why students become RA's, but all of us have a desire to help. It wont hurt our feelings to deal with your roommate issues, your class schedules, or anything else you're facing. Our job requires certain things, of course. But the main benefit of this is to be there FOR YOU when you need. 
5. We are the coolest people you will meet.
Okay, so I may be partial. But, All of my res life staff is super cool. We aren't sticklers, we all get along, and there is something cool about each of us. Getting to know your RA can be one of the most rewarding connections you will make in college. Remember that.
Giving your RA some lovin' could go a long way. It gets easy to assume they're just there to be there, but try using them as a resource and being there for them in return. Find out things you have in common with them or even learn about their major. This could help you A TON in the long run. If being an RA seems like something you would want to do, CHECK IT OUT! I promise, it is the most stressful, wonderful and rewarding decision one could make.
