There Is A First For Everything | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

There Is A First For Everything

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."

172
There Is A First For Everything
Grace's Camera Roll

Most people might believe that firsts are something that no one has ever done before. Whether it is history firsts such as walking on the moon, gaining women's rights, or it is a personal first like passing your driver's test or going to college, it is all equally as important, and I'm here to tell you why, no matter how different, big or small.

Going into my second year of college, although there are many things that will not be a first for me, I will still have some that are just as important. First day of a new season, new classes, professors, people, experiences, living space, memories, and so much more. Just because I experienced all of this during last year's journey, doesn't mean it is going to be a cake walk. It is okay to still feel the same anxieties, nerves, and uneasiness. Just because you have already done these things before, doesn't mean it should be easier. There is a first for everything, even if that first is something you or someone else has already accomplished.

Whether the same first is being repeated or not, it is just as important. First day of freshman year and first day of sophomore year are both two very different days, but equally just as important and exciting. Every day we are living in a 'first', so take advantage of the fact that every day is a new opportunity to do something you have never done before.

Now that I have completed my first week of Sophomore year, I can say that although I've gone through these motions before, they're not any easier. Classes are new, living space is different, and loved ones that were always right there are suddenly two hours away. With this being said, yes, it is okay to give yourself grace and realize that these are firsts, and they are just as important!

This is my encouragement to you, never shy away from doing things for the first time or second time, but first time to you. The importance will never waiver, and you never know what it will do for you, or someone else. Who cares if someone has skydived before you- you've never done it, so when you do, it's just as amazing. Dr. Seuss said it best, "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."

So right now, if you're like me and feeling like "I've already done this before, I shouldn't be stressed about college, or missing my family." Yes, yes you can! Or, I just got an A on this paper, but so did he or she. Or, I was finally able to run more miles than I usually do, but he or she can run farther. It doesn't matter- if it means something special to you, and it was a first accomplishment for you, then that is all that matters.

So, go out, be a first-timing, goal crushing, amazing human that we are all capable of being! Take advantage of the new seasons that our life takes us on because we never know what achieving our goals will do for others, and especially what it could do for ourselves.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Lifestyle

11 Confessions Of A Sleep-A-Holic

If your plans get cancelled, there is a 99.9% percent chance you are sleeping.

670
woman lying on bed
Photo by Kinga Howard on Unsplash

1. What are some of your hobbies? Does sleep count?

I'm so good at sleeping I can do it with my eyes closed

Keep Reading...Show less
one tree hill
Wikipedia Commons

If you need a new series to watch, I recommend One Tree Hill. I watched this series three times now and it only keeps getting better. If you need any more reasons beside the fact that all of the seasons are on Netflix for your binge-watching pleasure, here are seven more reasons to watch it.

Keep Reading...Show less
University of Mount Olive
University of Mount Olive

College is the most exciting time of a person's life. It really is. Exciting is not always a positive feeling though. Excited is a feeling that can be associated with nervousness, anxiety and more. Here are some real tips for college freshman that go beyond the typical, "Go to class," lecture.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

The 5 Pros and Cons Of Long Distance Friendships

Being friends with someone thousands of miles away has its drawbacks and perks.

1455
friends on the beach

True friendship is incredibly rare, and to find a friend that will be there for you through all of life's curveballs is something quite unique. To add distance into the equation, maintaining a real, true friendship can be a struggle. There are good and bad parts that come with long distance friendship.

Keep Reading...Show less
high school girls
Tori Horne

Friendship. It's defined as the state of being attached to another person by feelings of affection or personal regard, but what really is friendship? Is it that occasional hallway talk with that one person who always manages to cheer you up? Is it that relationship you have with someone where they can be gone for a long period of time, but when they come back, it's like they never left? Is it spending every waking hour with someone, and knowing every detail about their life? Is it the relationship that's filled with fighting, but filled with even more resolution? I've learned that it's all of these things, and every friendship is different. It's a beautifully dysfunctional mess that should always be cherished and never be taken for granted.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments