Don't feel discouraged. Your time will come. It could be stressful when you're surrounded by many people getting married, having babies; the pressure is unbearable. Fate has its plan and all you can do is just follow the lead. Don't ever put yourself down or get upset because you feel like you're alone. You are not alone. You are not the only one who feels like they are not good enough or the only one who isn't in a relationship You are good enough, better than good. You just haven't found the right person to value your worth more than anything.

We have days, months, years to find the perfect one for us. It's a journey that takes its course and we will follow that road until we find happiness. Love is what we need in order to feel happy. Finding our soulmate to complete the circle of life is what we strive for. Nowadays, the dating scene is so hard for many of us because we search and search and get nowhere. We are picky. We are selfish. We are waiting. We have these needs and wants, trying to find the person to fulfill those needs and wants. There is a special someone out there for you. No matter what gender, color or race they are, true love will prevail. Don't let your hopes up. Giving up looks easy but it could be hard to go through.

To the women who haven't found the one, do what is best for you. Go on vacation with friends in similar situations like you, establish a hobby or an interest that could keep you busy. Don't let anyone tell you how your life should be. You make the choices for yourself. It is always told you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Try to do things that you enjoy doing for the time being. Surround yourself with positive vibes and people like friends and family. Keep yourself occupied enough that when the time does come, you wouldn't even notice. It's so important to make yourself happy. Don't do things for anyone else but yourself. To the women who haven't found the one, don't stop loving yourself. It takes time to find true love in someone else. Your value is worth more than you know so don't give up on yourself