Planned Parenthood is many things to many people. For women-all women it's a place where they can receive free emergency contraception, free condoms, cancer screenings, and more. Abortion is only 3% of the services that Planned Parenthood provides and yet the organization that helps millions of people is demonized because a large group of Americans don't take kindly to women having bodily autonomy. If you ask "pro-life" identifiers though, that isn't the case. To those who consider themselves pro-life, Planned Parenthood isn't about helping men and women and educating teens about STDs, and their birth control options. To those who applaud themselves for being the saviors of babies, Planned Parenthood is about murdering children before they've had a chance at life. Which, if that narrative was the truth would be the noble endeavor they claim it is.
However, the pro-life perception is not the truth when it comes to Planned Parenthood or abortion. The fight to defund the organization is based solely on the fact that abortion services are performed. Ivanka Trump said herself that Planned Parenthood would receive funding if abortion services ended, to which the VP of Planned Parenthood helpfully pointed out-as did many Americans and Elizabeth Warren- that the government has never funded abortion through Planned Parenthood. Our majority Republican administration thinks that this is a compromise, or rather, that it's reasonable. To someone who claims to think that abortion is about murdering babies that would seem more than reasonable, but to those of us who know that murder of any sort has nothing to do with the battle to protect reproductive rights, the idea that Planned Parenthood should only receive government funding if abortions are out of the picture is quite frankly, a slap in the face. I may also add that this is another point that shows that Ivanka Trump is not a champion for women's rights-even though she seems to think so. Her voice is not intersectional or progressive and not one that women can count on.
Of course, the administration or any Republican leader wouldn't stop at defunding Planned Parenthood. The goal as any citizen with an internet connection, ears, or a brain can tell is simple enough to put into a bulleted list.
-Defund Planned Parenthood.
-Appoint a loyal conservative U.S. Supreme Court Justice who would aid in ending the right to privacy guaranteed by Roe v. Wade.
In fact a bulleted list might not be necessary, since the end goal is even simpler than that. The path to ending abortion is hidden under veils of moral superiority and religion, when in fact it should all be chalked up to misogyny. Dangerous laws have already been put in place in this country sparking the need for handmaids in courtrooms, and forcing rape survivors to notify their attacker if they want an abortion. The latter is a law that exists in Arkansas and is one of the many examples where rapists have more of a right to a woman's body than she does. In many states rapists legally have custody over children that were conceived without consent, and in some cases victims even have to co-parent with their rapist.
I wish that we didn't live in a nation where rapists' rights take precedence over reproductive rights, but sadly legally that seems to be the case. How can women feel safe and represented in majority Republican states if this is how they're treated? Moreover, how can so many women be on board with defunding planned parenthood and supporting leaders who would force mothers who miscarried or those who have had abortions to bury the baby?
A variety of reasons are behind the widespread female support of policies against women. Financial and racial privilege for one thing, for another, internalized misogyny. Women who don't practice intersectional feminism often can't see past the comfort zone of religion, personal politics, race, and class. Planned Parenthood means something to me because I value women and men having access to sexual and reproductive health services. It's important to me and many other women because we pay $50 for Plan B in a store, when we could get it for free at our local clinic. But what happens if there is no clinic? Do members of the "pro-life movement" ponder how closed off a young woman would feel in a city without a Planned Parenthood clinic? Where there is nowhere that simply wants to help and educate. Where they don't have to be scared of their sexuality and they'll be taken care of and taken seriously. I suppose pro-lifers wouldn't pay much mind to the humanity behind women, now would they? If you can't afford the copay for a gynecologist or a general practitioner, and there's no clinic where do you go? Many Republicans seem to think driving miles to get an abortion performed is somehow equal to access. It isn't.
Today, 4 clinics were shut down in Iowa cutting off services for 14,600 patients. Planned Parenthood serves 2.4 million patients nationwide, but clinics are being shut down in droves across the country. How can they expect us to see this for anything other than what it is? How am I or any other woman supposed to perceive the attempts to bring us back to the days of wire coat hanger D.I.Y. operations as anything other than a selfish attack? Pro-life individuals claim that they are the champions for unborn life, but what about the real life of the woman? The one who is already a productive member of society, in comparison to the fetus inside of her that has the potential to be a baby, with the potential to be a child, with the potential to grow into an adult, who would potentially contribute in a way that may or may not be greater than the contribution the woman is already making. Now to me, that's a lot to stake on potential, but that's exactly what the pro-life movement seems to be about.
I wish my city's clinic hadn't shut down last year. I wish we weren't still having to fight for the rights that our male counterparts would've granted themselves in an instant, had they possessed baby growing abilities themselves. I wish that we had a constitutional right to an abortion instead of merely an agreed upon right to privacy. A woman shouldn't have to explain her "controversial" past decision to have an abortion by stating that her medical history is only between her and her doctor. Should it not be obvious that it's no one else's business? No, my friends, the right to reproductive health is not recognized. We've had to fight for so long simply to have agency in American society. We're still fighting to remind our fellow men and women that the fight isn't over and it's not only a domestic one. Always speak out. Protest. Make noise. Donate. Do whatever you can until our voices are heard and we are viewed as deserving of bodily autonomy.
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I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.
1. Why are towels considered dirty when you get out of the shower clean?
2. Who closes the bus door once the bus driver gets off?
3. Why is there a "d" in "fridge" but not in "refrigerator"?
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4. If you drop soap on the floor is the floor clean or the soap dirty?
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5. Is the "S" or the "C" silent in the word "scent"?
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StableDiffusion6. Does expecting the unexpected make the unexpected the expected?
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StableDiffusion7. Would Lightning McQueen buy car insurance or life insurance?
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StableDiffusion8. Who put the alphabet in alphabetical order?
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StableDiffusion9. What color are mirrors?
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StableDiffusion10. If 2 mind readers read each other's minds whose mind are they really reading?
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StableDiffusion11. Is there a synonym for "synonym"?
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StableDiffusion12. If your shirt isn't tucked into your pants, are your pants tucked into your shirt?
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Photo by Vanessa Serpas on Unsplash13. Why is it called "quick sand" if you sink slowly in it?
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StableDiffusion14. If I try to fail, but succeed, which one did I do?
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Photo by Jan Antonin Kolar on Unsplash15. If Cinderella's shoe fit perfectly, why did it fall off?
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StableDiffusionMost Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024
As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024
From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.
It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.
Here is a collection of the best photos of the October Northern Lights that popped up on social media feeds:
Spectacular, wasn't it?
Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.
When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.
1. You won't see the sunrise or have your favorite breakfast in the morning.
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Instead, your family will mourn the sunrise because it means another day without you.
2. You will never stay up late talking to your friends or have a bonfire on a summer night.
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3. You won't laugh until you cry again, or dance around and be silly.
4. You won't go on another adventure. You won't drive around under the moonlight and stars.
They'll miss you. They'll cry.
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5. You won't fight with your siblings only to make up minutes later and laugh about it.
6. You won't get to interrogate your sister's fiancé when the time comes.
7. You won't be there to wipe away your mother's tears when she finds out that you're gone.
8. You won't be able to hug the ones that love you while they're waiting to wake up from the nightmare that had become their reality.
9. You won't be at your grandparents' funeral, speaking about the good things they did in their life.
Instead, they will be at yours.
10. You won't find your purpose in life, the love of your life, get married or raise a family.
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11. You won't celebrate another Christmas, Easter or birthday.
12. You won't turn another year older.
13. You will never see the places you've always dreamed of seeing.
14. You will not allow yourself the opportunity to get help.
15. You will have seen your last sunset, a beautiful and stunning display.
16. You'll never see the sky change from a bright blue to purples, pinks, oranges, and yellows meshing together over the landscape again.
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If the light has left your eyes and all you see is the darkness, know that it can get better. Let yourself get better.
This is what you will miss if you leave the world today. This is who will care about you when you are gone.
You can change lives. But I hope it's not at the expense of yours.
We care. People care. Don't let today be the end.
You don't have to live forever sad. You can be happy. It's not wrong to ask for help.
Thank you for staying. Thank you for fighting.
Suicide is a real problem that no one wants to talk about. I'm sure you're no different. But we need to talk about it. There is no difference between being suicidal and committing suicide. If someone tells you they want to kill themselves, do not think they won't do it. Do not just tell them, “Oh you'll be fine." Because when they aren't, you will wonder what you could have done to help. Sit with them however long you need to and tell them it will get better. Talk to them about their problems and tell them there is help. Be the help. Get them assistance. Remind them of all the things they will miss in life.
If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline — 1-800-273-8255
To My Loving Boyfriend,
- Thank you for all that you do for me
- Thank you for working through disagreements with me
- Thank you for always supporting me
- I appreciate you more than words can express
- You have helped me grow and become a better person
- I can't wait to see where life takes us next
- I promise to cherish every moment with you
- Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
- I love you and everything you do
To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.
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Thank you for being supportive with everything that I want to do. Instead of trying to convince me 'no', you're encouraging me with a 'yes' or 'you got it'. Having you as my number one cheerleader is such a blessing, because I know I'll always have someone rooting for me. And you know that as much as you're cheering for me, I'm cheering for you right back. Having such immense support for one another is so important in any relationship, and I'm so lucky to have that kind of love and attention coming from you everyday.
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I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate you more than words can write. I could probably talk for hours about how much I love you and how obsessed I am with you, but that's a little too much to put into an approximately 500 word piece. More importantly than telling you, I hope I'm able to show you everyday through my actions how much of a positive impact you have on my life. I'm certainly not the same person I was when we first started talking over two years ago, but I'm definitely a better person today than then, with a big thanks to you for that. You've helped me grow so much and I know you'll help me to improve for the better even more in the future.
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I can't wait to see where life's adventures take us next. The only thing I know is that I definitely want to enjoy those adventures with you by my side. I promise to keep enjoying all of the little things that make every day with you so amazing. Thank you for the thousandth for everything that you do for me, because I don't know where I would be - or who I would be - had it not been you by my side all this time. Thank you for being my best friend, my secret keeper, and my confidante. And if I don't say it enough, always know I love you and everything that you do.
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With So Much Love,
Your Very Appreciative Girlfriend
11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY
Because no one ever really leaves.
Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.
Hauppauge High School
https://patch.com/new-york/hauppauge/ev--college-night-b588e8eb
We only have one high school here, and no matter what grade you are in, everyone seems to know everyone. We are a small school with a lot of spirit. Homecoming and Kicks for Cancer are two of our huge athletic events that occur every year, and the whole town comes out to support our football and soccer teams. If you don’t go to at least one of these events, are you really even from Hauppauge?
Palace or Paradise?
https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Hauppauge_Palace_Diner.jpg
We have two diners in Hauppauge, where it is not unlikely you may find some teenagers hanging out there until 3 in the morning, sipping on some milkshakes, or downing some fries. The diners are a very popular place to be after any school concerts or theater productions run by the school districts.
Smith Haven, only!
https://www.yelp.com/biz/smith-haven-mall-lake-grove
Smith Haven mall is pretty much the only mall anyone from Hauppauge goes to. Sure, we have Bay Shore mall and Walt Whitman mall not too far from us, but Smith Haven mall is right around the corner. It has all the shops that any mall really should have, and a pretty good food court too. You can almost never go there without seeing someone you know from home.
That 20-minute drive
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Moses_State_Park
One real perk of living in Hauppauge is the 20-minute or less drive to almost any beach on Long Island (excluding the Hamptons). We have Robert Moses beach on the South Shore and Sunken Meadow beach on the North Shore. Whether you are in the mood for a busy beach day or a quiet day at the Long Island Sound, it is not hard to find the right spot. Since we are in the middle of the island, getting to the beach is something to really look forward to.
Restaurant Row
https://www.branchinellisonline.com/hauppauge/
You know that strip of fast food places right across the street from the middle school and high school? Well, it has officially been nicknamed “Restaurant Row.” After that 2:15 dismissal at the high school, you’ll be able to find tons of students hiking across the soccer fields with determination to get their fill of Wendy’s, McDonald’s, or Panera Bread. There is also Starbucks, Burger King, and our own Branchinelli’s Pizza… which is a whole other level of amazing pizza.
The Rinx
https://www.therinx.com/
So, Friday nights in middle school always ended up with the majority of us ice skating with our best friends. The Rinx also happens to be one of the best rinks on the island with many teams having practices there… yet Hauppauge does not even have an ice-hockey team…. Weird.
We are that town
https://www.888vetshighway.com/
Honestly, Hauppauge is really just that town that cars pass through while trying to get to bigger towns. Veterans Highway drives right through the middle of us and you usually just end up in Smithtown or Commack. Those two towns are more well-known for being bigger and having higher populations.
The Industrial Park
https://galluzzoteam.com/blog/hauppauge-industrial-park-on-long-island
You know that huge maze of roads aligned with dull looking buildings that seems to stretch as far as the eyes can see? Yeah, the roads that are infested with geese everywhere… The industrial park is apparently one of the largest in the nation, and its almost impossible not to get lost in, unless, yes, you’re from that side of Hauppauge.
High School Teachers
https://www.hauppauge.k12.ny.us/article/1729514
Everyone just loves this town so much, that they really never seem to leave. You really know you grew up in Hauppauge when half of the teachers in the school district went to the schools when they were kids! They know the halls better than we do!
Hot Bagels
https://www.change.org/p/chick-fil-a-save-the-bagel-gallery
Yes, this is the name of the 24/7 bagel store you have been to at least once at 3 in the morning. Hot Bagels is home to the best bacon, egg, and cheese sandwiches around. It is almost impossible to go there and not wait in a huge line. That’s all right though, because chances are you’re standing next to someone you know or have seen around town.
The Hill
https://foursquare.com/v/hauppauge-high-school/4bd231d777b29c74ce3f8e82/photos
Sledding at the high school is a winter tradition for all of us. Whether you are with babysitting young children or you’re with your best friends, you have most likely been to the huge hill near the soccer fields at the school. You actually get quite the rush when sleigh riding down some steep slopes and hitting some moguls!
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