As a girl that is single and has had my share of bad dates and flirting, I’ve come across many colorful men, if you will, and I have a strong list of the men YOU don’t deserve because you shouldn't settle for anyone or anything that doesn't feel good for you. Here is a list of the top fifteen red flagged types of men that I have found through my dating experiences and I hope these help you too.
1. The Water-Only Man
If you go out to eat with this man, he is a cheap date and isn’t thinking about you. Also, it is very rude to go to a restaurant and only get water anyway. This guy clearly doesn’t know how to live.
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2. The guy who calls everyone he knows crazy
This guy is truly the crazy one because people are people.
3. The guy who doesn’t tip well
If he doesn’t tip well and treats servers crappy, he doesn’t respect people enough.
4. The Man With No Car
A guy who didn’t drive to his date. If he didn’t drive and meet you there, he’s a loser, especially if he wants a ride after. It’s just a strange behavior.
5. The guy that only asks you out if you’re heavily under the influence (because nobody is perfect and crap happens)
If you can’t walk straight and are trying to sober up, be classy and wait until a girl is back on her feet and sharp as a whip to ask her out. Nice guys will ask a woman out when she is mentally all there, not only at an event or through the phone if there was drinking involved.
6. The Mama’s Boy
If he worships his mother and can’t stick up for you or do things without his mothers opinion or assistance, ditch him fast because you should be number one.
7. A Pissy Pat
One time I went on a date and my date was at a bar, so he was hating everything about it, even the mechanical bull, music, and life. He was grouchy and even missed the waiter doing a backflip, but he was so angry that it appeared childish, and nobody wants an angry man child.
8. Mr. Pretentious
If he keeps asking you if you “understand what that is,” ditch him because you want somebody that sees you as an equal and sees how intelligent you really are.
9. Mr. Snippy
If he gets snippy on a date where you just met, especially if it’s over a movie suggestion, just lemon law this guy.
10. Desperado Date
The one when you’re just going on a date to just go. Don’t do it to yourself if you’re not feeling it.
11. The druggie
I think this one doesn’t need an explanation. If he has a boat load of drugs in his system, leave.
12. Creepy Creeps
If does anything creepy or shifty like the one date I when my date wanted me to have the chianti wine because Hannibal Lecter drank it, run fast and be careful who you swipe on if you use Tinder.
13. Weird Compliment Man
If a guy doesn’t know how to tell you you’re beautiful, cute, stunning, pretty, or etc, ditch him. I once was called, “the cutest animal at the zoo.” I never saw that guy again.
14. Mr. Drama
If he loves making you feel bad emotionally with what he says, starts fights for no reason, is always too jealous, or wants to make you feel jealous, it’s unhealthy and you should get away ASAP.
15. The Lazy Man
If he eats canned pasta and won’t buy a new shirt after he stained his shirt and it has holes all over it because he spent all his money on weed or booze, that’s grody and means he has no ambition and is immature.
